Friend AdviceThe love we have for friends is one that all humans share. Although not intimately, this love can be more important than other types of love we carry. Let us assist you with any questions you have regarding your friends.
Ok so i have known this girl for 2 years and were best friends. the problem is, my mom hates her. my mom always gets mad when the subject of her comes up. the reason...well theres 2 reasons. 1: she is a total brat to her mom. not to be mean but i do agree with my mom on that. she always demands something and yells and her mom when she doesn't get it. nothing is ever perfect to her when it comes to her family. #2: this is what my mom says: ...so i grew to be friends with this other girl. my best friend got pretty mad (like jealous) that me nd the other girl were hanging out all the time. so my mom says that my best friend is controlling and i have to be her friend and i cant be anyone elses friend and im like her side kick. so i kinda tried to ignore it and me and my best Friend were friends again. the problem is the other girl hates me now and all three of us are going to the same school next year. i have no idea what to do. please help with any advice
well that is tough. mothers tend to see people for who they truly are. i had a b/f who was materialistic about everything....she was kinda mean and rude to people and when i told people we were b/f i always got the why thing. we were completely opposites which is ok...but it is difficult to be friends with someone who is very self centered. and frankly her parents allowed her attitude...i would be friends with her, but not best friends. she will eventually pull her wanting her way with you too.
surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you. If that's who those two friends are, then great, but honestly, they dont sound like the best of people. Drama is stupid and you should really not let yourself be pulled down into it. Plus, going to a new school, (i'm guessing high school?) you'll meet lots on new people.
Do what you think is right, and well listen to your mom at the same time to..mothers say things only because they want their children to become nice people,what ever decision u take..do it for the best..good luck!
Okay, I have had a lot of experience with friends. And believe me 99.9% of them are not there when you need them-- which doens't mean anything it just means that ur best friends can be only the best what u ve got. When my father died his so called best friends were all but here to support us. The one person that helped us to overcome this situation was a guy who wasn't even a good friend with my father. He just felt it was wrong that othes were treating us like that after my father died.So anyways you and only you should decide who are you going to hang out, never let anyone tell you who is ur friend or not because they might be wrong or right( and how many okay friends does it take to lose , to get rid of the one who is not u friend in reality...u have to decide that). Only like that you will learn from u r own experiences who is ur true friend(and that is maybe ..over many years). Well anyways good luck
i need some friend advice...?
