I need advice to do with a cherished friend?

raziellumpy · #1 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 04:57 AM

An otherwise happy, healthy individual who has quite suddenly become withdrawn, angry, aggressive and sits by the window most of the day refusuing to see anyone. Just staring out in silence. She looks so unhappy and blank it scares me. Her husband and children can not understand. She won't get help.Is there anything on this Earth i can do for her? Its as if she's given up. Won't eat. Won't sleep. What the hell can suddenly cause this to happen to such a wonderful person? And no, there is no debt, no marital problems and no ill health. She has it all.

pirate_princess · #2 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 10:37 AM

no ill health? i think her mental health is very ill, if her husband contacts her docotr and explains, they will not be able to discuss anything with him but should come out to see her and advise from there

fanella · #3 (**permalink**) 05-25-2009, 10:24 AM

is she secretly taking drugs? something has brought the sudden onset on

Heather May · #4 (**permalink**) 05-25-2009, 12:02 PM

She might just be clinically depressed. Or it could just be that she feels alone whether she is or isn't. The best advice I can give you is that you should try and talk to her and counseling may help too. Marriage counseling may help also.

Violet Pearl · #5 (**permalink**) 05-25-2009, 08:28 PM

See if there's a doctor in your area who makes house calls, and with her husband, have a home-visit arranged. Something is wrong, and it could be a physical problem causing mental distress. Problems like thyroid, hormone imbalances, etc. can effect your mood.

ijessica · #6 (**permalink**) 08-22-2011, 01:09 AM

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Originally Posted by raziellumpy

An otherwise happy, healthy individual who has quite suddenly become withdrawn, angry, aggressive and sits by the window most of the day refusuing to see anyone. Just staring out in silence. She looks so unhappy and blank it scares me. Her husband and children can not understand. She won't get help.Is there anything on this Earth i can do for her? Its as if she's given up. Won't eat. Won't sleep. What the hell can suddenly cause this to happen to such a wonderful person? And no, there is no debt, no marital problems and no ill health. She has it all. <br />

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