Is she really my best friend? advice needed..?

Kelsey L · #1 (**permalink**) 12-28-2008, 11:13 AM

Okay. There is this girl who is my best friend. We are both 13&her name is Amanda. She moved to were I live when she was in the 3rd grade&we started being best friends in about 4th grade. Ever since then we have been kind of inseparable. I always get people coming up to me and going dont you get annoyed of her?. and i just say no. shes my best friend! We have all of our classes together and we do almost everything together. Its crazy. If i dont sit by her or do something with one of my other friends shes usually start crying and get mad at me. A couple of weeks ago my Dad had a heart attack and it almost killed him.. She really didn't seem to care. She sent me a text message hug.. But other than that she didn't give me a hug when i came to school the next day&she didn't even say she was sorry. This really surprised me. Now one of her other friends (who she is close too to but not best friends with)Dad's friends died and shes all upset and crying. Supposedly she didn't know the guy and she got all upset.. She wont talk to me and this just makes me wonder if she really is my best friend. I need some advice.. I dont think i can lose my best friend.. ]:

~*Alex*~ · #2 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 07:40 PM

wow idk wats wrng wit her........... mayb she doesnt know how to express her feelings correctly......... thts my problem...... i dnt know how to express my feelins n i need to work on that

Amber S · #3 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 07:12 PM

be hellaz nice 2 her. or just strt hanging w/ some of u othr homies and ditch her. make her jelous. if she getz all sad tell her that u thought she didint like u anymore cuz u didint care wen mah dad hada

♥Info Lady♥ · #4 (**permalink**) 05-17-2009, 10:25 AM

ok first of all, your friend iz a bitch! she doesnt even treat u right. u should check 2 see if shes tlkn sh*t bout u cuz she sounds lik a person who would do tht. then see if shes gettin a new besty, cuz 2 me it soundz lik ur jus her little bak up friend. when shes a lone she wants attention nd u give her tht sh*t lik crazy! Shes jealous (NOT GUD!) nd u need to find ways of relying on other friends 4 help. honestly im tryin to stop u from getting ur feelings hurt from thiz chick. GUD LUCK!