question about me and my friend, advice is appreciated?

yanksbaseball02 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 10:17 AM

me and my friend have known eachother for 15 years, we used to hang out with kids when we were younger and played the usual sports, some baseball, basketball, but me and my friend both saw that our friends attitudes changed so we stopped hanging out with them, and we hung out exclusively with eachother for about 3 years, then one day we went to this new park and eventually got into a new group of people at this place and played sports with them, but this too has been since summer of 2004, and both me and my friend have gotten tired of dealing with these people cause they are selfish and dont see things the way we do(me and my friend are religious and thoughtful, while these others dont go to church and sometimes to drugs)me and my friend are busy and like to hang out when we have a chance, but my friend is shy by saying to these people that he doesnt wanna hangout anymore.i have respected his opinion and havent said anything either, so what is everyones advice/opinion on what to do.tx

just_wondering53489 · #2 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 09:32 PM

well you can igrore them by not taking emails,phone messeges,ext until they get the messege that you dont want to hang out with them anymore and if they get mad at you just tell them you dont want to be friends anymore.

Girl_Next_Door_Forever · #3 (**permalink**) 01-05-2009, 03:36 PM

just ignore these people u two have each other u too are best frnds then why do u need these people who dont understand u at all just enjoying being with ur frnd

gamefreak334 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 05:19 PM

wow this is interesting... well theres always ignoring them but that never works out well... but i think if u really dont wanna hang out with them anymore then just walk away from these ppl u dont even have to say anything u can just stop talking to them while its like ignoring but its more of a walk away... if they wanna know why ur not hanging out anymore just tell them that u would rather hang out with people that go to church or dont do drugs... even though ur shy about saying it u have to step-up and say whats on ur mind...