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How do I become friends with my best friend's girlfriend?
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Old 01-02-2009, 06:25 PM
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My best friend is a guy and he has a girlfriend for the first time in our friendship. By us both being single we always would lean on each other but now sometimes I feel alone. Probably the worst part is he treats me different in front of her and he has been making it difficult for us to become friends. I don't wanna lose my best friend I love him but its now been a month and I am still not use to the girlfriend and I feel like such a third wheel because I am not friends with her. Any tip??? thanks

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Old 01-06-2009, 02:58 PM
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Maybe you should add her on aim or something. Girls love it when guys go to effort about something. also tell your friend ow your feeling. Just say were not spending as much time together as we used to anymore, he should get it.
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Old 05-24-2009, 03:40 AM
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First of all, you should try to talk to him about it (without his girlfriend) and be sure he understands that it's not a jealousy situation. The"third-wheel"feeling will continue unless they breakup or at least until you find your special someone. Unfortunately, that's what happens when you get close to someone of the opposite sex and they or you begin to date.Hopefully, his girlfriend isn't insecure and doesn't see you as a threat to their relationship. If so, this will be more difficult. However, if all is well, she should also want to become friends with you simply because you are his friend. Ask her if she'd like to go out one day (shopping, movies, etc.) and see how she responds. This will give you an idea of what type (if any) of relationship she wants to have with you.Good luck in this situation and I hope it all works out for the best.
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tell him about it, im sure he will understand

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