What advice should I give to my married friend about her thoughts of adultery?

Mrs.Magee · #1 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 10:27 PM

My friend has been married for two months to the love of her life. they have a 4 mo. old daughter and are very happy together. Yet his friend (who is very attractive) has been staying with them for the past month and she has been having sexual fantasies about him. She comes to me for advice on what to do but I don't know what to tell her. Any advice?

jaime · #2 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 10:44 PM

You don't know what to tell her? Try no. Why would she want to mess up something great for a fling? Sure you may find other people attractive but that doesn't mean you should act on fantasies.

gourmet · #3 (**permalink**) 12-11-2008, 09:12 PM

Tell her to remove herself from that house, before she ruins a whole BUNCH of lives!She is playing with fire, and somebody is going to get burned!

crazy sexy cool · #4 (**permalink**) 05-15-2009, 11:20 AM

tell her she's wrong to even think that way about her house guest, and if she cared anything about her marriage and her husband she'll never think that way about anyone, tell her as a true friend, she needs to hear it from you!

♥dreaneni♥ · #5 (**permalink**) 05-22-2009, 10:40 AM

Well I think sometimes its normal to be attracted to others, its not normal to act them out. If this is the love of her life and she is newly married remind her of what she will lose.. and for what, its not worth it. Being married they shouldn't have anyone living with them, that is never a good idea for those exact reasons. Tell her to remain true to her vows.