I need some friend advice??

Rawrimadinosaur · #1 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 05:17 PM

SO my friend is having a huge party after a dance. and all of my friends are going including the guy i like. i talk to this girl everday and we are really good friends. but she didnt invite me! she showed me the top of theinvitation and was like"look at this cool font!"and it said"*INSERT NAME HERE'S* AFTER DANCE PARTY!!"so im pretty much really angry.because my friends didnt really want to goso i planned it out so i could have a few people overand when i asked themeveryone wants to go to her partyand its not a party i can"crash"she planned it outand i think she thinks im stupid and didnt read that invitationor didnt talk to anyonebut i deffinatly knowand everyone is talking about itand im really angryand she was a really nice personso i dont know if i should mention itor let it gobecause as of right now i have no plansand feel like a complete lonerbecause i also just broke up with my boyfriend a few days agoso any advice would be nice!!THANX

SXYMAMA · #2 (**permalink**) 05-15-2009, 03:27 PM

Either talk to her, or CRASH IT!!!! dependent on how close you are to her. You guys sound more like frenimies. I had a friend like that where we hungout all the time, shopped together partied together, secretly both competeing against one another, till we got into a HUGE Cat fight. If she wants to single you out, crash it, show her that it didn't work. Talk and have a blast then suggest some of the friends go back to your place.

Jenny · #3 (**permalink**) 05-21-2009, 08:36 PM

Things have a way of working out the way they are supposed to. I strongly encourage you to forgive quickly because if you were meant to be at that party, you would be.Nobody can know for sure, but what if that particular night would have decreased the length or quality of your life?When the fork in the road leads down two paths you don't belong on, God (or fate, or destiny, or luck) may distract you from that fork.