How do you geta stubborn girl friend to seek mental help?

the problem is she works in the mental health area and used to have an eating disorder. her best friend also killed himself the other week. she says that she will fix her own problems and refuses to get help. she is also forceing herself to vomit again becouse of stress. we are getting married in the new year and i cant seem to to do anything right by her. she also puts work ahead of sleep. everynight shell be lucjy if she gets 4 hours sleep and it doesnt help that shes afraid to sleep becouse of nightmeres.

if she is an adult and is refusing to get help despite your pleading with her, then I'm afraid there is nothing you can do. All you can really do is express your concern to her and hopefully she will be able to open her eyes to the fact that she has a problem and needs professional help. But SHE has to make that choice.