ok......so i have this friend and we have been friends for a really long time. I know about all of his family, except that his father past away. So about 2 weeks ago, his older brother got kicked out of the house because he was said to be in a gang, not a big one but a small one. The thing i that he got in trouble at school for doing some gang signs and stuuf. So now my friends thinks he should join his brothers gang. I told him he was crazy, but he said he wanted to show his brother he isnt a wimp and a loser. I am trying to stop him form making a stupid decision. And if i snitch, i'll lose a friend. I know all he wants his respect and his brother to be proud of him....but it aint worth him doing dat. He has a good reputation and is very smart. he has a future but he is going to waste it. I need very good advice and help. PLZZZZZZZ!!!!!oo i forgot to say i already told him..and all he does is push me away and says he doesnt care,"its his life"