I am falling for my best guy friend but he likes my other best friend. advice please?

Michelle D · #1 (**permalink**) 12-12-2008, 01:38 AM

but he likes my other like best friend. she doesn't like him back though,what should i do? i mean i think he might like me a little, i mean the"signs"are there and another friend said we should go out... any advice?

TheBalconyScene · #2 (**permalink**) 12-12-2008, 03:15 PM

tell your friend to make it clear to him that she doesnt like himso that he will give up on her and hopefully have his eyes on you haha

Leslie BBy =] · #3 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 01:44 AM

make sure he is not dating anyone then ask him hey do you want to go out

eerin25 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 09:40 AM

OMG i used to have the same problem. not anymore. well, he still likes her but i gave up...lol sorry :P

Why are guys so clueless! · #5 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 10:36 AM

Its not the right time. Wait until he's over your friend so that all the attention is on you.

lolololl · #6 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 09:28 AM

you cant do anything. Dont do anything.sorry,he will eventually realize that she doesnt like him and he might move on to you but honestly, the best thing you can do is wait.

jercha · #7 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 06:56 PM

You can not force love so look elsewhere. Desperation is ugly.

x-tina · #8 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 12:12 AM

He doesn't like you yet! Trust me guys have weird ways of falling for one girl one day and getting over her the next. You shouldn't let your best friend be your obstacle. If you want this guy by all means make it happen. Be around, hang out, get close you'll see how little by little feelings develop. Good luck!

Tayanee T · #9 (**permalink**) 12-31-2008, 01:35 AM

well okay hun, you should talk to the boy. Tell him that you like him,&if he's like really your best friend&he didn't like you back then it wouldn't matter? But as long as you talk to him then at least you know. Talk to him,&your friend.&good luck

Victoria M · #10 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 12:52 PM

You should ask him out!I mean if he says no he says no!No big deal!