What should I do when my friend asks me for advice but she never tells me any?

Saffron · #1 (**permalink**) 12-12-2008, 10:51 PM

I have a friend who always seems to need my help 24/7 but when I ask for advice, she never advises me. Instead, she makes a dumb excuse and hangs up. I have no way of getting advice from her and once when I did receive advice from her it was really good. What should I do?

DoYOUknow? · #2 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 03:12 PM

i think she doesnt appreciate that your always there for her but you should still give advice treat others the way you want to be treated

Isa · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 07:44 PM

If it is that important to you, ask her why she never gives you advice and that sometimes, you need her help too.But don't get in a fight with her over this! I don't think it would be worth itgood luck!

bdoane60 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 10:00 AM

may i suggest that you quit making yourself her 24/7 slave. Avoid her once in a while or just don't be able to give her any good advice a few times. She probably won't change but maybe you will get a little relief from the stress of all of it

Promise · #5 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 03:12 PM

keep giving her advice.. and maybe u can tell her that u would like her to give u advice...