friend advice, please?

xemoxheartx · #1 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 11:47 PM

ok, so ive talked to my friend about this a number of times. Im going to plain out say it. Im jealous of my best friend. Im jelous of her boyfriend, of her family relationship...of her. Im tired of talking to her about it, for a couple reasons which ill keep to myself. This is not my 1st time asking for advice on this topic..im so desperate to try and find a way out of me being so jealous. Im FINALLY starting to take other peoples advice, when they say"your only 17..just wait for"him"to come to you...and"its ok to be single."im getting better with it. Im not sure exactly, what it is im asking for help with but..i feel so...misplaced..out of order right now. Im very confussed. My other best friend and i can relate much more when it comes to family matters. I guess i wanna know what its like to have a good relationship with ur family and to actually be close to them, which im not.

Toto · #2 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 10:26 AM

Single is OK if you don't get point to kill yourself because you are lonely.

phyllis n · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 01:45 AM

hang out with positive families you do know if it doesn't interfere with their routines, you are nearly an adult, and maybe will find someone whom you will someday marry and create a family of your own to nurture

mexicanchick · #4 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 12:19 AM

well believe me you shouldn't be jealous about anybody because someday their life will change too.well having a boyfriend , enjoy your time right now. the only thing that we need a boyfriend for is for them to keep on reminding us that we are special and yeah. About family well yeah i do get along with my family sometimes but let me tell you there just family issues.

Andy · #5 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 06:57 AM

I know what u mean cuz I'm still going through with trying to get have a good relationship with my family&trying not 2 feel out of place&I'm 23. Instead of me being jealouse of a friend I was jealouse of my aunt. She was the 1 with all of the attention&all. But 1 day I did find that special man that made me feel into place&when he came I didn't care for my family anymore. So it is true 1 day you'll find that person who will make u forget about your other issues. 4 now just distract yourself that's what I use 2 do when I felt the way u do know.

surellll · #6 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 07:56 AM

Don"t be jealous you sound like a nice person and you want things and relationships that you never had ..try and be positive about these things accept them ..i am sure your friend includes you in her family life..we all suffer from such feelings but jealousy is a sad way of life you need to let it go because it will take over your life be good i know you can ,,sureilll