Please help.i mad a Huge mistake, any advice on what to do?
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Please help.i mad a Huge mistake, any advice on what to do?
i've been with the same girl for seven years now. it hasn't always been what you would call a good or healthy relationship. (she has screwed around on me in the past). my best friend is a female. we have been friends for a few years now. she is someone i can talk to about anything. i've been able to tell her things i wouldn't dare tell anyone else. she has never judged me on my sorted past. last night we had sex and both feel like crap because of it. thing is i'm afraid i've now lost my best friend. i know i need to tell the girl i'm with, and i will. we will work it out. but what do i do to keep my friend? there is no way i'd ever do that again with her. i'm so confused right now. she's the one person i talk to about what bothers me. i really need help from you guys. i already feel like total crap so helpful advice only please.i just want to thank all of you. you've given me a lot to think about.
Well you kinda dug a hole....do you really think your current g.f. is going to be just fine with you and your friend (that you just slept with) hangin out or talking? And even if you somehow work things out with your friend ... It's not going to go back to being the way it was. You definitely need to choose one or the other... Good luck
Give it some time, for the awkwardness to pass. If she values your friendship as much as you do, then'this too, shall pass'. Or, get rid of the girlfriend, who doesn't seem to treat you well anyway, and see if you and the best friend are a good match. Good luck!
Your screwing has probably screwed up your friendship. If you tell your girlfriend what happened it will look like you were just getting even. If the girlfriend has been screwing around on you, dude, why thehellare you still with her?Drop her, maybe there is a chance for you and the friend. She could be just really embarrassed that you are still involved with someone else and she feels like the other woman.
Don't just think you are going to keep"your girl", if you really think she is going to take it well, your wrongly mistaken.she is your girlfriend....so why don't you trust her to tell what you wouldn't tell anyone else, sorry mate but you dont love her, you love the IDEA of her.all i can say is, i think you are going to lose both your friend and your girlfriend. I'm sorry but hey, maybe you can get with your bestfriend?tell her you love the idea of her, or maybe because you tell her everything tell her you actually love her. c:hope this helps, in a kinda mean way, sorry. c:
well bro, you have either lost your girl or your best friend! If you stay friends then your girlfriend won't like you hanging out with her because you two have"sexual history"and if you stay friends with your female friend then i'm sure your girlfriend won't want anything to do with you. It's your choice.....i don't see you getting out of this and keep both of them in your life unless you have one hell of an understanding girlfriend that trusts you. Even if she lets you stay friends with your female friend....i wouldn't expect her to leave you alone with her in the same room anytime soon! Good Luck bro!
Firstly no one is perfect, so stop being so down on yourself.. You were in the moment, it felt right, clearly wasn't the brightest of ideas, but its done now.. i respect that you are telling your girlfriend, and im sure she can accept it as she has screwed you in the past so she will know more than anyone where you are coming from. As for your best friend, you haven't lost her, i can say things will be awkward for a while but just don't bring up what happened be normal send her texts like'hey, how are you, up to much?'or whatever you use to send before all this and just be cool about the whole thing. Things will go back to normal as long as you and her don't weird each other out about what happened. best of luck hunni..xx
Well if she is really a close friend and you can talk to her about anything, you can talk to her about this too. Set up a date where you guys can talk it out and explain to her that you didn't attend for this to break your friendship!! Explain that you have never wanted to be more then Friends with her and you cherish your friendship! Hope things go well for you!!
I would break up with the 7 year gf, if you obviously aren't in a good relationship and went as far as to sleep with your best-friend, it's seems more like you should be with her instead
You know the relationship with your current GF is not how it should be. Perhaps you should come clean and end the relationship with her. Seven years is a long time to waste, but keep continuing on may be even worse.Not sure if your BF will be good as a GF, but sure things will never be the same.Be honest with her, tell her exactly that. You feel you made a mistake and would like to be friends forever, see where that takes you.
Please help.i mad a Huge mistake, any advice on what to do?
