My 11 yr old's father calls every 2 yrs and wants our son to come visit him out of state. Here's the situation: we divorced about 7 yrs ago and every time he goes to visit his father, there is always a different woman he's living with along with different kids. How do I explain to this person that he is not displaying a healthy relationship with his son. Everytime we talk, we end in an argument because he's so dense in the head. My son does not want to visit him, he's tried to tell his dad why and the man has an excuse for what has happened. I don't blame my son for not wanting to visit his dad. His dad feels I am the mastermind behind my son not wanting to visit him. So how do I get this man to understand why this 11 yr. old doesn't want to be around him? He thinks because he has a legal right to visit his son, that nothing else matters.
Visitation advice?
