Anyone who is mature, wisdom and experienced ,Need your Advice!?

I think that at the beginning of a relationship, things are"nice."You dont'really come to know each other till one down the road when your defenses are down and the newness has worn off. I think all couples fight at times and that is healthy. No one can always agree all of the time. I just like to know that he is there, that I know he is around if I need help or advice. I know he will be honest in his answers to my questions. I like to know his opinions on things. There are times that he annoys me and I know I annoy him sometimes too. There is alot of give and take.

A mature parture makes you feel special by listening to you, and caring about what is important to you, by being honest and upfront about things. That person should show that he is a man of his word by doing what he says he will, and never hanging you out on a limb. If you ask that person a question, you should always get an honest and thoughtful answer, with no lies of omission.

Wow your not asking much. If you both create an atmosphere of focus and goals, this is a beginning. If you both give as much as you get, that is a start. If you both forgive as much as you hurt, your close. If you always remember that you and he are loyal to each other then you have a good shot at a good marriage. The rest you play it by ear.

My real relationship has it ups and downs.....My husband is not perfect but I overlook it even though somethings really shouldn't be overlooked. But he makes up for it by being a good husband and father....he doesn't like to do things without me and he calls me when he is at work....no I am not controlling...we have been together for over 15 years. We value family and I think that makes it work....plus when there is a problem we talk about it not run from it. Not sure if this is what you were looking for....

I expect honesty and loyalty. Someone who you enjoy talking to, who gives you butterflies still after all the years of being together. I expect my spouse to want to spend time with me while I want to spend time with him. A healthy relationship consists of love and support and most of all a true friendship. I hope that helps!!!

my husband and i r best friends we don't keep secrets from each other, we talk about anything and everything. he gives me my space and i his own space. if i am tired he takes over watching the kids and little cleaning. we trust each other. we have watched alot of our friends get divorced that had gotten married around the same time as us and they had problems with trust and they just never spent anytime apart. let it be just go shopping by urself. we expect honesty from each other and understanding. we let each other blow our tops once in awhile without holding it from each other. of course we fight but at the end of the day we are sorry and we love each other. space is the best part. we see each other all day once a week he goes drinking with his friends and i go with mine, seperate. everybody needs that space once in awhile.