How do you keep your relationship healthy?

france b · #1 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 02:52 PM

I'm trying to learn new ways to make my relationship with my boyfriend one that is compromising, etc. What is some advice or tips you have that keeps your relationship fresh?

suparman2be · #2 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 03:22 PM

be different dont be the same surprise him. swtch it up try to apeal to all his senses while keeping his ideal for you the same

Lexy Lou Who · #3 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 04:43 PM

let your partner see a different side of you..about 8 months into my relationship i started being completely ridiculous.. the way i am with my gf's..my bf and i have a lot of fun together and we can goof around without feeling embarrassed

beachxbabex3 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 07:00 PM

well my relationship is long distance.....4 hrs. :-( soooo a few months ago i secretly spoke to his parents and we planned a weekend that i was gonna come down to visit him....he had NOOOO idea and then i showed up at his football practice. i was sooo awesome. or just maybe try little things that he won't expect. like hide a note in his coat pocket for him to find on his own....do something youve never done like ziplining or in the summer like parasailing or tubing or something....

SOPHiA♥ · #5 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 08:18 PM

dont get borring. if you dont go out, enough, go out.change up the sex, make it more fun and interesting.keep him laughing/smiling and vice versa...no lies, dont keep nothing from eachother

mexme · #6 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 09:34 PM

If you really want to know how to treat your man well read"The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands"by Dr. Laura Schlessinger.

iLoVeMySoLd!eRbOy! · #7 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 06:03 AM

Definetly do not show that you're insecure or jelious or too clingy, be supportive about activities that he wants to do or join...be caring and listen to his problems if he has any..If he's ever having a down day or a hard time just try and give him some space...stay faithful and true to him and try not to lie to him ever....and never leave a problem unresolved always make sure the littlest problem gets resolved or else it'll just build up more&more. And just love him and show him that you care. Always start the day out with a hug and kiss and end the day with the same. If you guys get into a fight try not to yel and just try and talk tings out but if you're really angry give yourself and him some space and when you're ready to talk...talk! And just be you, be the person that he loves and fell in love with to begin with. You never know when or what will happen and you don't want the last minutes hours togather to end in hurtful words. Just love him and remind him of that everyday.