i was with my b/f for 3 years, the whole time there were other women...advice???

*Lovely 2* · #1 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 07:41 PM

i did everything for him, anything he needed i gave, and the sexual part of the relationship was healthy and i gave him what he needed daily...well after i left the rose colored glasses came off and i saw him for what he really was...im 99.9% sure he cheated on me the whole 3 years...with 4 girls i know of...how could someone do this to you...someone who says they love you and want to marry you, someone you give you life to!!! im so lost...i feel like its my fault..i just dont understand how a guy does that for 3 years...im so glade i left but still..how could hefor those of you who said i allowed this to happen are ignorant people...i did not know this was happening he hid it well, he finally started to get sloppy and i caught on so i left, i never new...

gutyan · #2 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 04:15 AM

he is a pig.make sure you get all STD tests even if you protected yourself.

Brittany D · #3 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 05:28 AM

DUMP THAT ASS HOLE!! cheating is WRONG. but tell them about you first so hopefully they will stop fooling around with him to.

Missy154 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 06:51 AM

Men literally think with their d*cks sometimes. There called players for a reason. I have been through a similiar situation before. You will find someone who is worth your time and effort one day, thank God not all men are like this.. Best wishes.

ttlyinluvwidjesus · #5 (**permalink**) 01-13-2009, 07:04 AM

That's a really good questions.........HOW COULD HE?!?!!? It's not your fault.....the guy was just a dipstick......That was a 3 year relationship that you need to look back on and learn from. Don't close yourself out from other men though....there is a guy out there for you........you just have to believe that. Don't feel like it's your fault......its not you fault he's an idiot!!!! If you were giving him everything he needed...........then he was stupid to cheat on you. start over.............

****Sparkles**** · #6 (**permalink**) 03-10-2009, 08:01 AM

Some guys, and women too, are like that. They are never satisfied to be with or faithful to one partner. Be glad you weren't with him longer than 3 years and contacted an STD. My ex came back and gave me a present that keeps on giving. My best. Sparkles

jerrymousecat · #7 (**permalink**) 12-01-2011, 01:38 PM

I feel the same way too.

They dont deserve..