How important is sex in a healthy relationship?

alex w · #1 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 05:03 AM

Why would a perfectly healthy man go off sex with his partner of two years after having it 2 or 3 times a day? Why would he still get erections in bed at night but not want to preform at all? He hasnt turned to god and he's as fit and as mentally stable as he was when we met. Can anyone explain please?

project_grim · #2 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 04:16 AM

Stress? Cheating? Or maybe he's turning queer.Oh, and yes, fulfilling sex IS important to a relationship.

Kaybee · #3 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 12:24 PM

if you cannot get past two bodies touchingfor pleasure, you cant get over sex,and you cantstay for long in any relationshipnot even with yourself.sex can be FUN and WISEif you learn HOW to GIVE and care.GROW UP PLEASE.these answers should come naturually afterage 15.

Arishta · #4 (**permalink**) 02-14-2009, 07:30 PM

You need to ask him. It may be that although his body wants it he isnt turned on mentally. Guys get erections all the time for no reason. It doesn't mean they want sex. Maybe he has just calmed down.Stress and worry can cause a loss of libido.

a_d_g_e_q · #5 (**permalink**) 03-08-2009, 04:24 PM

now...if u go partying 2-3 times everyday for a whole year....wouldn't it become redundant? wouldn't you become tired or bored of it?? it's human nature..... he MIGHT be cheating on you, but you can't prove that unless you catch him.... i think he's tired of it... probably is questioning what is there REaLLY in your relationship....maybe he's questioning on whether it's just based on physical things....or if there really is something more???TALK TO YOUR MAN. Find out what's wrong. Only he can tell you. Listen to him.