please help! i need some advice?

My girlfriend broke up with me for another guy, we were together for over a year and I loved her very much with all my heart. Our relationship wasnt the healthiest but i love her. i found out she was sneaking around with this guy but she would deny liking him even though i would have proof. i would break up with her but she would beg for me back and cry and beg for me back. so i gave her so many chances on the condition that she stop talking and seeing this guy and she said she would. I always found out she was talking to him or still seeing him. now its finally over and i dont think she is ever going to come back to me. I dont feel like i can ever love again...she was my life. she was everything. i dont feel like i can live without her. Im afraid that i am going to feel like this forever and never get over her. I love her so much. Is there anybody out there that was in my same position that ended up getting over it? and didnt even care about the other person anymore? is it possible?

Hey, I went through the exact same thing. It was very heart breaking, I was depressed crying day in and out. I found letters, phone calls, and gift receipts. I ended it and he wouldn't let me go. So thinking I must have meant something, gave it another chance and another..... All he did, was became more hidden with his deceit. But after a while, did get over the situation and I realize that I DESERVE better. If he really felt that I was worth it he would have let her go!!! When you are in love and love someone it can be blinding. She's playing you and taking ou for granted. Let her go and maybe she would realize what she had. But you deserve better. Keep your mind busy and occupy your time. I know it seems like it will not get better, but time heals all wounds.