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How do i stop him being abusive?
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Old 12-31-2008, 07:44 AM
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My bf and i have a very healthy relationship and i love him with all my heart except he can get really violent and nasty sometimes.Like if he's in a mood something that pissed him off he'll take it out on me and telling me to get out of his face.But he gets really horrible when he's drunk which is when it all gets physical and he starts hitting me and once he gave me such a hard hit to the face i thought he may have broken my nose but luckily he did'nt..thank god.When he's sober i'll have talks with him about his behavour but he'll just say he won't do it again but he never keeps his promise, and when i tell him he's gone back on his word he tells me i'm just a young kid...WTF then i feel like saying to him"WHY ARE YOU GOING OUT WITH ME IF IM SUCH A YOUNG KID"? I'm 15 and he's 20.I love him SO much but i don't know how to stop all this crap?any advice will be greatly appreciated.I don't want to leave him because i love him.If i asked him to get counseling would it work? or would it just mess it up even more???

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Old 01-03-2009, 07:54 AM
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it's illegal for you two to be dating. your too young for him, i can guarantee he doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do for him. your probably just an easy girl.
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Old 01-08-2009, 05:17 PM
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You can't stop it especially if he is drunk. You need to get out of that relationship as soon as possible. You deserve a guy that will treat you well and is your own age.
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Old 03-05-2009, 08:50 PM
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Dump him, get over it. He's definitely not worth it.
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Old 03-13-2009, 03:56 AM
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uh.... leave?!
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That kind of bf is scary, you might dont know what will he do to you when you both get married already. As long as you can, stay away from him already.
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Old 12-01-2011, 12:28 PM
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If that's what he really is, there is no way to stop him. Why not try to leave him and make him realize all his mistakes.

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