I feel like I am too immature to be in a healthy relationship personalitywise.?

Susie C · #1 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 03:58 PM

Have you ever had this problem? I am 15, but I think sometimes I just feel like I need to communicate better when in a relationship. Like sometimes I will just say a few mean things, feel bad about it, then apologize, and this could happen more than once. If you have experience with this problem, is it something you grow out of with time, or does it take a good bit of effort to fix? Thanks for your help.

cultureslum · #2 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 03:16 AM

Look,I'm 19 and it's common to have these problems.Don't feel bad about these things so early in life.Just keep dating and learn from your mistakes.Maybe taking some single time can help too.You will learn in time.If you were in your 30s,I'd say to look for help.

heart o'gold · #3 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 06:50 PM

This is very normal for 15. Don't forget those raging hormones that take over your brain and make you act, well, crazy. This is not to say you should use that as an excuse for bad behavior, but give yourself a break, you are young. You will go through many developmental phases in your life. Just pay attention, try to do the right thing as often as possible and make the best decisions you can with the information that you have at that time. And don't be afraid to tell someone you made a mistake and never, ever balk when you owe someone an apology.Best wishes!

Seti · #4 (**permalink**) 03-14-2009, 06:06 AM

Well, you're mature enough to ponder your immaturity... When I was 15, I didn't even consider my crushes"relationships". By the time I started getting involved in real relationships, I was a grown-up. Don't worrry about it, you don't need to fix anything, just be yourself and keep growing. Marturity will hit you sooner than you think.