Healthy Relationship AdviceMany say that love is the most common cold. From being overly consumed with someone, to being blatantly mistreated we can be ill in love and not even notice a sign. We may not be doctors but we can prescribe you with healthy love advice to make sure your relationship is strong.
I'm a virgin, and more terrified of oral sex than I am of actual sex...In a healthy relationship, would sex be enough? Minus the oral sex that is... I'm honestly disgusted by it and would rather just have sex with my boy friend. But it seems like sex is so open these days that nothing's private anymore. I'm ready to have sex with my boy friend but I haven't because i'm so nervous about his expectation of oral sex. Is it possible that, once we have sex, that having oral sex won't be necessary?Advice please!Preferably from someone experienced and over the age of 20. With time comes experience. I'm not discriminating. Just paranoid I guess....Please Help!
Well It depends on the guy your with some guys feel as if they have to get oral sex. Like a fetish or something. Some don't care for it at all"In all honesty nothing is better that the real thing"and would Rather just have sex. But my suggestion to you is don't knock it till you have done it. But don't do it until your are ready to try it and if then you don't like it tell him. I f he is the kind of guy that feels like he has to have it then you have to evaluate if you want to be with him or not. If you do then you will have to compromise. Birthdays and anniversaries or something like that. But depending on how long you have been together I say Not the first time definitely
Most men enjoy oral sex, I prefer it over regular sex. My gf does not like performing it on me very much, but she still does it becuase she knows i like it. In fact She wouldnt let me go down on her for a long time becuase she thought it was gross, till i convinced her it wasnt.
My question would be why you are so paranoid about it in the first place? If you have never gotten it, your missing a huge piece of the pie. If you don't want it, there are usually two reasons why: 1) You are unhappy/uncomfortable with your looks/smells/tastes down there. Take a shower and freshen up. Let him be the judge. 99.99% of the time, he will treat you right (you both can enjoy it). 2) Your afraid of having to return the favor for fear of being inexperienced or having to ingest/wear the results. Two simple solutions. If unexperienced, tell him. He will walk you through it. Learning is half the fun. The ingest/wear issue. Suggest to him to give you a tap 10-seconds ahead of time before it happen. Switch to hand or other method. Every man knows"WELL IN ADVANCE"when it is about to happen. You can sternly inform him that if he"misfires", it will never happen again.Bottom line: before you decide against it, try it, then, make an educated decision. I have yet to meet a woman that did not enjoy it to the fullest (at least receiving it). If you don't at least try, you'll never know what your missing.
Is oral sex really that necessary?
