Healthy Relationship AdviceMany say that love is the most common cold. From being overly consumed with someone, to being blatantly mistreated we can be ill in love and not even notice a sign. We may not be doctors but we can prescribe you with healthy love advice to make sure your relationship is strong.
i've never been in a REAL healthy relationship. i have a group of close friends but i'm not terribly social (though most would say i'm very nice), and i don't have many opportunities to meet guys cus i'm always at work or school (majority of students are female). when i DO meet someone im attracted to that likes me back and i somewhat enjoy their company i just want things to work even if we're not really right for each other. in the end...im really damaging my own self esteem, because i desperately crave a romantic relationship even if the guy isn't right for me. then when he tells me things aren't right i think it's because i'm not pretty enough, or im hard to care for.the feeling of rejection makes me never want to date again. but looking at these failed relationships rationally, the guys were right to break things off, deep down i DO know whats right for me and none of them were it. i'm just tiered of being alone, i'm a warm loving person and i feel like i have all this love inside me and no one to give it to. im not even sure what kind of advice i need, but im 20, never had a good relationship, and even though im positive about most other parts of my life, i feel empty and alone when it comes to my love life. im starting to feel like a loser, because my parents say i'm nice and smart and pretty and they don't understand why i haven't come home with a good long term guy yet. it seems like most girls my age are in relationships...is there something i'm missing or doing wrong?the few times i've been dragged into going to parties, i've been TOLD later that a guy there thought i was cute. but i can never tell with guys my age, they all seem like they'd be jerks if you tried to open up to them. idk, maybe i just suck with guys.
hey dont sweat it to much. Is that you in your profile pic? because if it is you are very pretty!! one day the right guy will come to you i promise you that. You seem to be a very good girl and girls like you are hard to find these days. Guys can be idiots and jerks but thats just experience to make a path to know what you want in a guy. True romance is hard to find these days cause the word love is just a game these days i as well is looking for a good girl but in time i know ill find her and same with you. So juss give it time and not worry about it. It will hit you and you wont even know it did.
trying too hard perhaps?when approaching a guy don't immediately look for a relationship and just talk like you do to a friend. If you do end up liking them then you can start to approach them.If i were you id find a cute/cool guy that plays magic the gathering( i do, and i must say even though half of them are retarded the other half is cool) Then again maybe i just think of myself so highly, arg arg. At least i gave my honest opinion.
omg hun u hav jst spoken the exact words from my own mind! i cant stress enough how much this is how im currently feeling and also being 20 myself!i just hope someone here has an answer cos im interested too!
never been in a good relatioship and feeling sad?
