The ex-husband declared that he is gay. I went to high school with both of them. She is very insecure and has told me that she doesnt like herself. She tells me that she loves me, but there are times that she tells me that she is not sure how she feels about anything... She has 2 children, both grown, and fond of me. I truly love her, and the dilemma is that I am afraid that she maybe doesnt love me. We talked about living together, and I am a bit nervous about that. We have been reunited for about 2 years.