Dating a wonderful man with two kids and need advice?

Hi I am in a relationship for over a year, and it is going very well. We both love each other, and often talk about our future together. However, he has two kids from a previous relationship. The kids are both in their teens. I have yet to meet them, and he says he is not ready to have them meet me. Am I expecting too much to meet with them soon? I want to be a part of his life and feel perhaps he is not ready to let me into his....Just to note, he is in very little contact with his ex-they talk mainly about the kids. Nothing else, she has also moved on with another man. But he is living in the house and has been for almost 8 months! I wonder because I am a loving person and very ready to have a healthy relationship with his kids. Please, any advice is appreciated. Thanks*thanks Itialian Momma

no your not expecting too much.. but you answered your own question.. you said he is not ready for you too meet them yet., when the time is right he will let you meet them.. he wants to make sure you are the one for him and the kids and doesn't want them too get too attached and something goes wrong. it just mess's them up and makes it harder on him to meet other people. just be paitent and in time he will get more comfortable with you and let you get to know them better and you can have a wonderfull life together .. he is just protecting the kids is all .. its not you.. it's all him.. good luck.. and i am glad to hear you are willing and able to be apart of him and his kids life.. not too many people are out there are like that.. YOU GO GIRL..