Relationship Advice?

You must come to the realization that you can not control other peoples emotions and feelings. He has made his decison and you must accept it because it is what it is.

about u always running .. just keep reminding yourself everyone is a different person.. weather or not they will do the same thing is totally unpredictable. so you can't just assume. just try not to compare them together or expect the same thing to happen. ( i know it's not as ez as it sounds.)as for this guy you really like... any information on his history with relationships would really help answer this better .... i would like to know cuz it may answer why he is shying away from you.and on forgetting him.. eh.. there is never a good way to forget someone... i heard there was a studies on how many people who till their dieing day secretly always thought of their past love/fling/or potential love. BUT i think your are stuck on the thought on what it could have been. that he will be the best you've ever had. how it would feel to kiss him and so on and so forth... thats why you can't stop thinking of him. you just got to remember he isn't the only fish in the sea. their may be someone even better. (keeping busy is just putting off the thought of him... ignoring your feeling isn't the way to go..u'll still think of him later on, let yourself think about him and talk about it a lot ..let yourself understand it and come to termswith the situation.. it's the fastest way to accept thing how thing are. and forgetting.)i hope this was helpfulgood luck hun.^_^

best answer would be to find some one, something else.and it will be solved.

I would say you need to keep yourself busy. Is there anything that you've ever wanted to do or learn but haven't yet? Do that. Join a gym, take salsa dance lessons, learn fencing, or take an art class. Whatever it is, it doesn't matter as long as it will make you feel good and keep your mind off of him. I like physical stuff because then maybe you will be to exhausted to think about him at night, it'll help you sleep better. Also I think taking a walk or something isn't good enough. You need scheduled times you have to show up and do something, and where there will be an instructor to distract you. At the end of it, whether he comes back around or not you have learned something and improved yourself and you can always feel good about that

you need to go out with your friends and not think of him.... i know its hard but if you keep yourself busy... joining the gym... going to church... just doing anything to keep you busy

why is he backing away? Is he married? Is he non trusting? you need to find out why he is backing away. If he is married then back off. otherwise talk to him.

Bounce your mind off of him. You will have do to it like 100 times a day almost. Make one song lyric or prayer or phrase that you repeat when you think of him, like"Another will come along, another will come along."Make it automatic, and it will be easier to let go.

I have been burned several times also. Sometimes you don't get the love back that you want.. unrequited love is the hardest pain I think. The only thing that has made it better every time IS time. Time will heal you, but you have to just wait.Also, I have a good relationship now, but I am always wondering when it will end. Last night I had an ENTIRE night of dreams where my woman was leaving me.. Oh well, we are the products of our experiences. All you can do is keep moving forward...

Tell him what you just told us.Talk to him.

Honey you might wanna try getting out. Go out with your girlfriends and have fun. Chocolate always help heal a broken heart. Just remember men come 2 cents a dozen and if he doesn't want to be with a beautiful, intelligent, caring woman, then who needs him. Go look in the mirror throw on some really cute clothes that make you feel sexy and just go out. Have a ball first then find someone who will appreciate you for you!