relationship help....?

sabinaauchi · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 03:48 AM

Hi there, i need some advice. my boyfriend and i have been together for at least 10 months. for around 9 months we had a really nice and healthy relationship. we fell in love had a great time and that whole entshilada... recently, since autumn he started getting odd. is so happens that we are going to live 3 hours away from each other in july... we discussed the situation and decided to try a long distance relationship. after that he continued being odd, not the sweet person like he used to be. i talked to him about it and he admitted that he had changed. he also said he wasnt sure if he still had feelings for me. so i broke up with him. 3 hours later he came back begging that i shouldnt go, that he did loves me, that he would try to be the sweet one again, just that everything is odd...im just saying he is odd, he doesnt treat me like he used to. i love him. does he really love me?, because if i back off, its the end of the world for him. if i stay, hes odd? wat should i do?

jennfarmer100904 · #2 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 10:26 AM

Leave him. Love shouldn't be that hard. If there was ever a point when he thought he didn't love you, then he probably DOESN'T and is just afraid to be alone and doesn't know what to do without the routine of having a girlfriend.

dmxdragon2 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 07:16 PM

Don't fool yourself, breaking up with him isn't the end of the world for him as he would like you to believe. It just sounds like something else didn't work out for him and now he is begging for you. He will get find something new again and then go for it and put you on the back burner again. Take it slow and start looking yourself

Simone · #4 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 01:55 AM

well, why not just give it a try again, and if it hasnt changed in a month break up with him them!!!What do you have to losse???

NAN G · #5 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 07:15 AM

You should agree to date other people. If the love is real, you will both realize it - it not, you will realize that also.

whisper v · #6 (**permalink**) 03-11-2009, 05:12 PM

'Sad'is all i can start with. Now u should acknowldge that he was honest in sharing his true felings.now the fact that he has come back again requesting a second chance reflects that he is a bit confused. so i would suggest, take a time off from each other...and relook at ur relation from an external angle.also it seems that the relation is driving because you are keen in taking it forward. i believe, that even ur bf should have the inclination to make it work.Its always said, if ur love comes back, then he is urs ,if doesnt ,then he never was urs!