nEED KISSING ADVICE BAD! AND QUICK! (GUYS AND GIRLS HELP)?

Monica R · #1 (**permalink**) 12-15-2008, 08:18 AM

this guy is coming over in a few hours and he's known to be a REALLY good kisser. he wants to hook up with me really badly and i want to hook up with him too, but i havent had NEARLY as much experience! WHAT SHOULD I DO?! go for it? no? and if he makes the first move and starts it should i just follow him or take control? he likes the aggressiveness i get when i'm in the moment, but since i'm me, i'm LOST!i am 18 i just haven't had as much experience COMPARED to himand we're friends but there could be something there...a lot of people are saying wait till marriage? idk if you're talking about waiting to kiss until marriage but some people think of"hooking up"as sex, and my friends and i say it meaning"making out"or whatever, just trying to make this as clear as possible!

Mayzeeeee! · #2 (**permalink**) 12-16-2008, 11:14 AM

go for it!

mAnDiE 16 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 12:29 AM

follow what he does until your comfortable and wanna take control

Mendy · #4 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 09:31 AM

i say go with the flowkiss his neck and work ur way upalso seventeen.comhas sum good kissing advice in the section about guyscheck it out=]

kutelittleflirt · #5 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 07:40 PM

wait till marriage!!!

all4jc93 · #6 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 07:54 PM

what are you doing? do you hear yourself? you're freaking out because you don't think a guy will like you because you haven't had as much experience as he has. is this a relationship based on friendship? or based on physical things? if you're only doing this to kiss him.. and not to hold onto a really great friend and possibly bf.. then you need to think up a head cold and get yourself out of this situation. popularity isn't all that it's cracked up to be.. don't let him take advantage of you. set boundaries for yourself on how far you're willing to give yourself away. this is a very bad habit that only ends up hurting later.

Jennie · #7 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 02:27 AM

If he likes aggressiveness, let him make the first move, control it for a little bit, then kinda pull back, and then take over! Guys love that.Have fun!

lor_bor11 · #8 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 06:42 PM

yeah kissing seems really scary and it only seems even worse when you get all worked up about it. You should only kiss this guy if you actually like him. Don't just kiss him because he wants to or he is good looking.If you are going to though just lean in and go for it. I say just lean in and do it cause guys like it when they are taken control of once in awhile...especially when they have a lot of experience.best of luck

kiss him from your heartnot just because you have to or you are trying to follow what he does.

blegna · #9 (**permalink**) 01-08-2009, 09:01 AM

First of all how old are you ? it seems to me your a little to young if you don't have any experience ,girl you need to get on your knees and pray to God.

charanga · #10 (**permalink**) 01-14-2009, 07:50 PM

You worry too much

If he makes a move&you want to respond, then go with the flow&follow his lead.FYI: More experience doesn't necessarily mean someone is an expert. In fact, it can mean quite the opposite. In order to be really good at something, you must love what you do

So put your heart&soul into your kiss. Nothing beats being on the receiving end of passionate lips.Enjoy!