a little kissing advice?

fragile_elvenlight · #1 (**permalink**) 07-23-2010, 01:52 PM

okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while and we've kinda kissed before..(just little kisses)...i like kissing him but i get really nervous and i feel like I'm doing it wrong kind of...and i want to be able to kiss him, ID any advice as to how to do it?? weird question but any advice at all is appreciated...

lizardlover150 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-25-2010, 01:52 PM

just let him take the lead, that way if it does suck, it could be blamed on him.

Katerade Turdo Fo'Sho' · #3 (**permalink**) 07-29-2010, 01:52 PM

there is no right way of kissing just do what you think feels right for you. if you boy friend is a bit more experienced then you are try to copy what he does.
but DONT try to go straight into french kissing start off simple. then when you two are both comfortable try something a little different.

p.s (practice makes perfect)

bpdou · #4 (**permalink**) 08-01-2010, 01:52 PM

Be relaxed & dint rush.
If he didn't like your kisses he would say so, trust me.
Just be more confident and leave him wanting more.
Your welcome =]

Lisa... · #5 (**permalink**) 08-04-2010, 01:52 PM

1) go to you tube.com and type in "french kissing" and learn how to do it. also, go to "go ogle.com" and type in "how to french kiss" and learn. That will teach you what you Neda know, FAR MORE and FAR BETTER than ANYBODY on here can! TRUST me- I'm doing you a huge favor by telling you this. I could easily explain how to kiss, but it's not gonna be as good, or as detailed, as it will be on a detailed site... you know? its just for your benefit. SO TAKE THE TIME TO PLZ LOOK, FOR YOUR SAKE! it will only take a few minutes ha ha.

2) You need to understand that us guys are h*RN, and we dint have super high unreal expectations like girls, and we would MUCH RATHER kiss a girl who's kinda bad at kissing, than not kiss her at all! ESPECIALLY if we are going out!

3) also understand that guys know there is room for improvement. Ur b/f knows u will get better and better... so just take it easy, dint worry, and relax. everything will be fine, just learn as u go along. he wont be too much better, either! and dont have super-high expectations for him, just like he doesnt for u.

4) The sexiest thing a girl can do is ask us if she's doing it right, and to teach her how to do it, etc. If you ask him that, it, well honestly its just incredibly, mindblowingly sexy. Dont ask me why, it just is. All guys will agree on this. EVERY one. So yeah, just ask him and he will teach you- and if you were in the middle of kissing him when u whisper it into his ear softly.. he will probably pop a boner as well. So make sure you do this in private haha. or at least where ppl arent looking

5) Guys dont care about perfect, once again; we care about whats sexually fun. Thats all you need to know. If you wanna please him (and this is IF), IF you do, then worry less about being perfect, and simply go farther- instead of kissing, rev it up to frenching, or making out, or even fingering after u guys are used to the other stuff... just keep upping the ante. THAT will make him 100x happier than u simply being a good kisser.

BUT im not saying being a good kisser isnt a really good thing, because it is. its just that we're not that worried about it, and WE DEFF do not judge you based on it!

Soulful Kris · #6 (**permalink**) 08-06-2010, 01:52 PM

Communication's good. If you don't know what you're doing, ask him what to do. But don't ask by saying "I have no clue." Try asking something like how he'd like to be kissed. You can figure out how to do it in a kind of sexy way.

If you ask for a little direction like that, it'll open things up so you can ask him to do things a certain way. If that's what you're looking for. You have to talk to each other, and it's totally possible to do this even while you're in the process of making out without breaking the mood.

Again, you just have to communicate with each other. You're dating him, not us. I don't know how he likes being kissed or what's a turn-off for him. You can find out, though. You just need to ask. Turn-offs are probably better discussed when you're not actually getting busy, but turn-INS are best talked about and then put into practice right away. That's how I'd do it.