Why am I always so akward when my boyfriend kisses me? The kiss is fine but when he tries to french kiss..?

delldude405 · #1 (**permalink**) 02-26-2010, 01:39 PM

It's really awkward for me, and I pull away. He's complained that I don't kiss him enough and I told his I am very awkward with kissing and what not.

Anyone have any tips or what the HECK do I do with my tongue???? It's weird just playing with his and uh... doesn't really feel right.

miksje130 · #2 (**permalink**) 03-03-2010, 01:39 PM

OK...if you dint know by now...then you need to ask him to teach you...you move it around...

zach h · #3 (**permalink**) 03-07-2010, 01:39 PM

its normal, my first kiss turned into a french kiss for no apparent reason. its not that awkward if u just let itself go free

Misty C · #4 (**permalink**) 03-11-2010, 01:39 PM

When you stick your tongue into his mouth you should "play sword fight " with his. You should move it all around his mouth and teeth and gumbos. If you feel this is awkward them maybe you aren't ready for that kind of kissing yet.

-unknown- · #5 (**permalink**) 03-15-2010, 02:39 PM

ask him to teach you that sounds like fun

wildspirit1313 · #6 (**permalink**) 03-20-2010, 02:39 PM

he must like it

obsoleteskater13 · #7 (**permalink**) 03-23-2010, 02:39 PM

If you feel awkward when he tries to give you a French-Kiss, you should tell him your feelings about that, and why you don't want to do that now. I'm sure he will understand. But if you want to learn to french, just ask him to teach you.

cbakakale@sbcglobal.net · #8 (**permalink**) 03-25-2010, 02:39 PM

Never has an old saying been more true "Practice makes Perfect".

Frances M · #9 (**permalink**) 03-29-2010, 02:39 PM

Relax. Believe me, it will come naturally and it's fun.
Here are some tips:

It's best to kiss with your heads off-set at an angle.
Always try to swallow before you kiss. Moist, not wet.
Variation is everything, for instance suck and nibble the lips in between the tongue-probing.
Get your hands in on the action. Caress his face, hold his neck and pull him to you.
Every now and then, detour away from the lips, elsewhere on the face.
Don't dominate the kisses. You are kissing together.

Stop in time. Make him want to come back for more.