can i get some kissing tips ?

a little goes a LOOOOONG way!

mum i wouldn't want tongue...
you should be really into it, but dint eat her face or anything.

use your tongue to lick your girlfriend's lips back and forth in a sensuous way, then probe her mouth with your tongue, try to touch the roof of her mouth with it, play with her tongue with your tongue, think in terms of making her feel good with your tongue, make it slow and sexy not fast and out of control

depends on the girl- some girls like tongue, others don't.

don't slobber,

don't swallow her freaking face,

try to keep contact with her lips and just kind of flow co-imperatively.

girls are different but i have yet to meet one who likes to be slobbered on during a kiss and likes to have her mouth enveloped in your throat.

and don't be mechanical, your mouth is not a steel trap opening and closing like a hinge- if she wanted that she could kiss the door frame.

SOFT, gentle, slow. I found a good instructional video that is funny and helpful...I'll look for it and attach it real quick.

*Okay, I've attached a link below. The article is great, and the video is better. Scroll down that page and you'll find the video near the bottom of the article. I'm gonna show it to my husband when he gets home, BC I cannot get him to keep enough of his own tongue to himself--we, Tim, I know.