I have the same dilemma! My hair can go either way...sometimes it's a little of both. With some coaxing it will be really curly or really straight though. I mix it up. I find that I get comments both ways too. I just decided not to "fight" with my hair and try to let it do what it's going to do that day. If it's curly I get the "oh, I really like your hair curly..it's much prettier this way." comments and then when it's straight "ooh...you're hair is so pretty straight. You should make it straight all the time"

all from diff people....just depends. Just try to keep it healthy by not over processing and try not to get upset with it.

Let it do it's thing! Lil!
Oh! and French Kiss Me Curls...love that term...gonna use it from now on. Thanks!