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I've never KISSED anyone before.....So do you have any tips for me?
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Old 06-20-2010, 01:15 PM
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Default I've never KISSED anyone before.....So do you have any tips for me?

I'm a girl, and it's my first time. What do I have to watch out for and how can I be a good kisser?

Also, I'm afraid I'll come across as someone with bad breath. Nobody has said that I have bad breath, but I wouldn't know myself either. So how do I get over that as well?

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Old 06-21-2010, 01:15 PM
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Keep the mints popping the night you think it'll happen. When it comes to kissing, the best thing to do is not be over eager. It's easy to do too much. Kissing is really not that difficult. Just keep tongue to a minimum and moisten your lips before you go in for the kill.
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Old 06-22-2010, 01:15 PM
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Practice on a mirror. Or on your hand. Be careful of your approach - you could bust a lip if you come in too fast. Use a breath mint.
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Old 06-26-2010, 01:15 PM
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Just relax, if it feels natural your doing it right. Dont get hung up on whether your "good" or not.
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Old 06-28-2010, 01:15 PM
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just do what feels natural for you. when you smack your lips, dint think, just react. as for bad breath, you wont know about your partner unless you've been together for a long time. as for you, try brushing up, floss, breath fresheners, mouth wash etc. it feels better to kiss someone with a sweet mouth. good luck! =)
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Old 07-01-2010, 01:15 PM
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Tips, and people on the Internet won't help you if you've never done it. Lil. When you actually do kiss someone, it'll come naturally. Just don't be so nervous. Good Luck!
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Old 07-02-2010, 01:15 PM
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well you have to learn how to use your tongue. play inside his ( or her) mouth with your tongue.
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Old 07-05-2010, 01:15 PM
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the first time i kissed a guy, he was way too eager, and it was just sloppy. i had no idea how to even respond to it, so i pulled away Lil. it set me off kissing that i didn't kiss him anymore after that and eventually we broke up anyways... (who knew a junior high romance wouldn't last!) i was actually disgusted with kissing because of him Lil, until i met different guys, who knew i guess what they were actually doing Lil, and it's just a natural thing if you let it be. Lil, even if it doesn't go how you expect like in the movies, you'll have a memory about it anyways!! good luck.. dint eat garlic or onions that day would be helpful
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Old 07-06-2010, 01:15 PM
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A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...


And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.




Basic Kissing Tips

Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.

If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.

Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.


And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.



Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.



Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.




Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.





Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.







French Kissing

This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.


Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.

Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.



Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.

Suck Kissing

This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.


Nip Kissing

This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.



Surprise Kissing

This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
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Old 07-09-2010, 01:15 PM
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Yep, it's probably going to be awkward. But that's the way it's supposed to be, though, so I wouldn't worry about it. Just think of all the fun you are going to have learning...
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Old 07-11-2010, 01:15 PM
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there are many experienced friends answering.
as we both are new we should do it without any discomfort.
what say.

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