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I need boy advice about the 1st kiss?
I'm 13 and i am going out with this kid peter and he really wants me to kiss me but I'm afraid to CZ it would be our 1st kiss hes not afraid to say anything i really like him but I'm scared to kiss him what should i do?
when i do kiss him what do i do after were done kissing?
I'm 13 too and i had my 1rest kiss when i was 11 ND trust me no matter how nervous you are it ll be amazing! just do it,trust me its so worth it!
Good Luck<333
If you are that scared to kiss him, then he's not the one. If he tries to kiss you, just turn your head so he kisses your cheek. Don't do anything you don't want to do.
Wat do you think is gonna happen? him bit ting your face off?
relax.
every ones afraid during the first kiss. Ur always gonna remember the moment, so you should do it real quick and be brave about u.
u dint have to be scared
relax, it will be fine(:
let him make the first move, he'll probably lean in first, then just follow what he does. it's quite simple ha ha. you'll probably get butterflies(: but after you're done with the kiss, look him in the eyes and smiler. that will get him(; ha ha have Finn.
Well What you can do is relax if it happens it happens. The first kiss is amazing there is nothing to worry about there are no bad kissers. So just relax and enjoy your self.
Well, do your parents know that you?re ?going out? with Peter? Don?t be doing anything with guys without their permission.
Age 13 is actually a bit young to be kissing and dating. Why? No offense to Peter... but because young teenage guys tend to be frogs? not princes. Because young teenage girls are simply too vulnerable, too impulsive, and too emotional. Because young teenage guys are typically only interested in what's in a young girl's panties. Because young teenage guys usually don't care about a girl's feelings. Because the types of young teenage guys who are bold enough to be dating are frequently focused solely on satisfying their own selfish desires. Because when the inevitable break-up occurs, a young teenage girl will often feel as though her heart has been trampled. Because any older guy who would date a young and vulnerable teenage girl is a creep.
Perhaps a general crash course all about guys, BF's, crushes, dating, love, etc. would be helpful for you to think about right now. It?s typically given to young ladies who have not started dating or kissing yet.
MMKidde... crushes, dating, and love can be confusing... extremely confusing... for adults as well as young people. That's why it is a good idea not to start dating too early... age 16 or 17 is a good age to start.
Young folks can be pretty unpredictable, and change their minds very quickly... for no reason whatsoever. That can lead to hurt feelings and heartache. You and some guy might both agree that you like each other one day, and literally the next day either one of you could call it quits. Just remember that.
Keep in mind that the purpose of dating is generally to determine if a person will make a potentially good future spouse. Therefore, don't ever date someone that you know would not be good for you in the long term.
Don't assume that you will marry your first crush or your first serious BF... it won't happen. The odds are literally 100-to-1 against it. Sorry!
The unpredictability and rapid changes in emotions is the main reason why Prue-teen and teenage love is called a "crush". The term "crush" does not mean their feelings of love and affection aren't real... but a Teena's brain won't fully mature and stabilize for several years. Serious BF/GF relationships tend to be relatively short for teens, although it's typical for teens to deny that historical fact and declare their "eternal love" for each other... and then break up shortly after wards.
As a decent and trusting young lady, you will need to be aware of a few of the potential hazards of dating.
Unless they already know each other pretty well, the typical proclamations of "commitment" made in the darkness when a young girl and her Romeo are first alone together are generally worthless... so be wary of those proclamations. Commitments need to last more than one evening, and be proclaimed publicly, in front of family and friends... not in the darkness or right after their first kiss (although any proclamation made by a player is automatically invalid regardless of where or when it is made).
MMKidde, here are two major dating hazards for you to consider:
1. There are some guys out there (the smooth players) who will tell a nice girl that he loves her, just to see how far she will let him go with her body. There are guys out there who are ready and willing to use you and your body for their own selfish pleasure... and then leave... breaking your heart in the process, and possibly leaving you pregnant... or with an STD (a nasty disease in your private parts). Hopefully, you will be mature enough when dating to recognize these losers, and say "No".
2. You could meet a genuinely nice and decent guy, and you both really do think that you love each other. After a few weeks or months, you both might be tempted to take off your clothes together. That would be a good way to mess up both of your young lives. It's happened to a lot of nice girls and decent guys out there. Hopefully, you will be mature enough to resist this type of temptation... and the temptation can be very strong.
Best way to avoid getting into trouble from either hazard listed above? Never be completely alone with your guy... anywhere. Not his house, not your house, not a friend's house, or anywhere else. A responsible (and awake) adult should always be nearby. You can always find a little privacy somewhere if you want to do some romantic kissing (a front porch, a dark living room...), but don't make it so private that you would be able to take your clothes off.
You should also never attend a party where no adults are present... ever. Nor any events with drugs or alcohol abuse.
Ideally, before you start dating, you need to make a conscious decision to remain a virgin until you are happily married. That means no premarital sex. Having sex too early will make you feel sad, cheap, and make it less special (same thing with kissing in case you do it too early with the wrong guy... but kissing is much less dangerous).
OK, why no premarital sex?
Because having sex without marriage is going outside of the laws of man and God that civilizations on this planet have lived by for thousands of years.
Because there's the unnecessary risk of excessive heartache (any break-up will cause heartache... virgin or not... but heartache will be less if you are still a virgin... that's just the way human brains are wired).
Because there's also the genuine danger of an unwanted Baby... or an STD.
Because your parents would very likely be extremely disappointed.
Because your "no sex" rule will pretty much eliminate the players, the losers, the creeps, the clods, and the selfish manipulators.
Because it takes about a year to know a person well enough to determine if they?re marriage material? to determine if their statements and actions are consistent and honest? and adding sex too soon into that mix is like tossing sand into a finely crafted mechanical watch.
By refusing to participate in premarital sex, you'll find out pretty quickly if the guy you are dating just wants to get into your pants? or if he truly respects you, your body, your heart, your soul, your feelings, your values? and your family.
Long term, you need to find a special guy who will be honorable and be very good to you as you grow into a decent young woman. He may not be the hottest-looking guy around, but you will love him just the way he is. He should be a guy who is proud to take you home to meet his parents and his family. A guy who has earned the respect of your parents and family. A guy who will ask for your hand in marriage. A guy who is willing to stand together with you in a wedding ceremony before both of your families in church.
It's never wise to date a guy who is not honorable and just wants your body... for a while... and then he would be gone. A problem like that is much more likely to happen if you give away your body without the commitment of marriage.
Don't be afraid or embarrassed to talk to your parents or your family about dating and boy issues as you are growing up. They know you, love you, and will certainly give you good advice.
It would also be advisable for you to read the Bible (start in the New Testament... at the Gospel of Matthew).
You will be really happy when you are older, and you look back over your life... happy that you made the right decisions about finding, dating, and evaluating guys when you were young.
That's pretty much the big picture for you to look at, MMKidde.
Take care and God bless,
- Charlie
P.S. ? Dr. Laura on the radio detailed a very simple instruction manual consisting of four words that will greatly increase the chances of finding and keeping a good BF/husband:
?Choose wisely? treat kindly?.
Both items are necessary for a happy and healthy relationship:
1. Choosing a nice decent guy is great, but if you treat him like crap? sooner or later, he?ll leave you.
2. It won?t matter how nicely you treat a creep? he?ll always be a creep.
The first kiss, what a moment. Well, its really up to you what you do. Its your body and if he really likes you and cares about you he'll wait until you're ready to act upon any action. You're 13, you've got a long way to go as far as relationships stand. If you have an doubt or fear, you should wait.
In a situation like this, I think the most important thing here is you. You're going to have to ask yourself what you want. If you don't feel comfortable kissing him don't do it. If you want to but are afraid to, then build up the courage
But the absolute WORST would be if you didn't want to kiss him or you weren't ready and then he pressured you into doing something you didn't want to do. This is your body and your feelings, you get to decide what you want to do. And don't be afraid to tell him (in your own way) that you're are not ready. Only a real jerk would try to manipulate you into doing something you don't want to do, and who wants to date a real jerk.
Now this is assuming that your parents are okay with this, which brings me to my next point which is, moms are not a bad source of advice.
Finallly, you shouldn't over think you first kiss. I hope it'll be one of those special moments in your life you can look back upon and get warm fuzzes, but if it's not then don't sweat it because you can't really control that and there will be a lot more great kisses in the future. But don't let it be a bad experience where you were uncomfortable and not ready, that is something that IS in your control.
I personally don't ever think of my first first kiss, but my first kiss with the person that I am with.
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