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After working with my new boss for the past couple of months, I started falling in love with him and had always had the feeling he was falling for me too.
From the first day we met we immediately developed a very strong friendship, always laughing and joking but things started getting intense.
He was always getting opportunities to take me home after I finished work when he should of still be at work, calling me at home on regular occasions when I was off sick just to talk and whenever I was at work we always seemed to be getting excuses to innocently touch AC hither.
Ok, he res the bad thing, he is married with a 3 year old son.
He has only been married for 6 months although they have been together for years.
I feel awful but I cant help these deep feelings I have developed for him, I cant stop thinking about him.
My feelings are so deep, I felt heartbroken when he was told by his boss that he had to go to another office to work for the next couple of months and he may or may not be back at our office.
He constantly said he didn't want to leave and I couldn't get to grips with the fact that I may never see him again, that's when I think I realized I loved him.
And then on his last day, he kept hugging me and going on about how it was his last day. Then after work, when I was talking to him in his office,we swapped numbers and he went to hug me again but instead of letting go of the hug, we both stayed in the embrace of having our arms around each other, just talking about how we hoped he comes back.
I let go after a while, thinking how I should control my feelings as he was married, and tried to develop a random conversation.
However minutes later he opened his arms as a gesture for another hug, and of course I leaned in, and at this point he pulled me to him and kissed me.
I kissed him back and after we stopped we stood there with our arms around each other again talking again and suddenly he thrusted his groinal area against me, which I didnt responsed too and let go of the embrace.
Afterwards I told him I hoped he came back to the office and then left, my mind completely everywhere.
I have since texted him a number of times asking him about how he is getting on at the new office and other things (but I have never mentioned the kiss) and he always sends texts back, but he has also never mentioned about the kiss.
He also came back to the office for one day since he left and called me immedately because I wasnt there saying he thought I would be there and it would be a suprise, however the coversation was slight awkard like we didnt know what to say.
I just dont know what to do, I think Im in love with him and just needs some adivce.
Do you think this means anything and if it does would you go for it!!!!
Well ask his wife what she thinks you should do. If you are still not sure, ask the little boy that will one day be a man and resent his father for ruining his once happy family.
He doesn't love you, he is looking for sex and is probably bored of his wife. Take a look, if he does something like that to his wife, what type of person is he? Seriously get away from that drama because believe me it will bite you in the ass. Start forgetting about him, you will just have a heart break and then move on but his wife will def have bigger issues. Poor wife..
I can tell you this. You know its not the right thing to do. And I can also tell you I understand how you feel. But think of this . He has a baby and I think at the moment his wife is not giving him the attention he wants. But in a couple of months when his marriage get on track again he will give you the cold shoulder. And I can also tell you that it will destroy your career. (Office gossip) , they will All find out and some one is bound to make your life a living hell. . Its human nature.
IN short STAY AWAY . make a girls out and go find yourself some one worth your while. Some one who is going to love YOU AND ONLY YOU.
Newly married for 6 months and he's already trying to cheat on his wife. He hasn't just fallen out of love with his wife all of a sudden and decided he's in love with you. He's playing you and there isn't any telling how many more like you. You are jeopardizing your job, he's jeopardizing his marriage. For what?? For a clandestine affair that's going to destroy possibly your career, his wife and child's life, not mention your reputation when you get caught. Do you want to live your life in the dark, hiding and sneaking around. Taking what crumbs he'll give you. Believe me, you won't get anything else from him. Do yourself a favor and hope he doesn't come back, and if he does, you need to find another job, where temptation won't be so strong.
Would I go for it? what are you some kind of trash? no I wouldn't as I can get a single man whenever I want. Seems you have to have other women's men. Nasty.
honestly i don't think you sound much of a whore as these other mindless people are saying and being so negative about it. First of all though this man is married & everything might seem perfect and yeah it looks like the man has feelings for you but in a way he's holding back cause he knows he has a family of his that's already started. Still it's not right think about it if you were married & had kids and months later you find out your husband's leaving you for another woman he met at work. Don't do something that you wouldn't want done to you. &yes i understand it's hard cause you love the man and it's a tough decision & you may feel like your in a big mess and obviously not sure what to do. You should call this man instead of sending a text and talk about it over the phone like just let em know how it made you feel and find out what he thinks and feels bout everything just to understand whats going on with him and if doesn't sound lasting or anything then forget em who knows maybe the next guy that takes his spot catches Ur attention! &make sure the sucker dint have kids or a wife!!!!!! good luck!!!!!!!!! hope you figure something out!
Well, I'm glad you didn't accept his coronal area advances before he left, but you still kissed him.
Did you ever stop and think about how his wife would feel about all of this? And what a terrible example this man is setting for his 3 year old son? This man has serious loyalty and trust issues, and don't say he's perfect because he's at the very least emotionally cheating on his wife and she knows nothing about it. That's messed up.
He will never leave his wife for you. Trust me. At most you'll be a FWB, don't delude yourself into thinking you're more because so many women gladly become "The other woman" naively thinking he'll leave his wife for them, and he never does making them feel used, lonely, and awful.
Rebecca, if I were you, I would let this go. If want to be with him, tell his wife what is going on and have him decide. But since that can cause a lot of drama (a LOT!) send him one last message of, "I can't do this anymore. It's wrong to your wife." and delete his number and never answer his calls again.
Help! I kissed my married boss! (need advice)?
