How to give my shy boyfriend his first kiss?? easy 10 points! :)?

i had to go im so sorry · #1 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 10:32 AM

okay, so for Christmas I would like to give my boyfriend his first kiss. I'll ply just kiss him on the cheek because I don't want to push things to far because he is really shy!!! Well, anyways, I'm just scared he will move away or freak out and freeze up. I want to make sure its been his best first kiss. But I am also nervous too, so please give me some tips on how to initiate the kiss, and how to make him feel comfortable... etc.... THANKS!

Yanne E · #2 (**permalink**) 02-08-2009, 10:32 AM

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asharfina · #3 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 10:32 AM

Speaking for myself - he'll probably freeze up like I did. But hopefully his instincts will kick in and you'll just melt in his arms.

brew · #4 (**permalink**) 02-15-2009, 10:32 AM

Say "Alright before I give you your present you have to close your eyes, and no peaking." When he obeys, just go for it. And keep it light and simple. Don't start trying to make out with him. Short, sweet, and loving. That should do the trick.

starlit624 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-19-2009, 10:32 AM

OK i understand that he's shy and all, but why stress over a kiss on a cheek. i kiss my girlfriends on the cheeks!!!!! its Christmas and give him a present and when u give it to him kiss him on the cheek or a light peck on the lips right at the moment when you hand the present to him. BTW, give him a teddy bear or something of your choice. the point is when u had him the present, if you get him one which you should, kiss him at the same time. cheek or light peck don't matter. its beautiful yet simple.

edwinanuts · #6 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 10:32 AM

Just get close to him. Maybe push him like your teasing him or whatever. Wait for him to let his guard down, wait for the right moment then give him a peck on the cheek. Look at his face to see if you can go farther. If he acts too shocked i would just leave it at that. If he acts shocked but smiles a lot, try one on the lips :P

Brad Morris 9 · #7 (**permalink**) 02-21-2009, 10:32 AM

sit together somewhere peaceful when the sun is setting and hold his hand. then you look at him and he will see this and look at you. just stare at him for a few seconds and slowly go towards him. kisses on the cheek is how your grandma kisses you when you see her so go for one on the lips for a few seconds.

axpert989 · #8 (**permalink**) 02-24-2009, 10:32 AM

Hunn , I Koo how u feel bout having a shy guy who doesn't like to make the first move!! I had the same prob with my bf but then we were hugging and we just kept get tin closer and kissed it was perfect!!when u 2 r hugging just look into his eyes when he looks into IRS just get Little closer but slowly or he will move away and kiss him and this is a good way to kiss kiss on the lips!! My Friend also wanted to put something in... If u want a cute thing to do draw a mistletoe on Ur hand and then make sure u make it as obvious as possible to let him see it and then he will pr obs ask Wat it is and then all u say is it's 1 of his presents for Christmas then u kiss his cheek!! Goodluck gurl hope u get that perfect kiss like I did!!

hope this helps!!