I Kissed One Of My Best Friends, Need Advice!! :(?

VISION · #1 (**permalink**) 03-26-2010, 12:08 PM

I was at a club a week ago and my best friend was there, we were dancing and stuff all night... he was a little tipsy all night then at the end when the last couple of songs were playing my brother told me we were going to leave soon and he'd be waiting. So I went to say my goodbyes to everyone, then I went to say goodbye to him (my BFFL, his name is Michael) and we hugged, then he kissed my cheek, then we kissed properly.... like with tongue, and I left. It's been a week now and I've been testing him (as friends) but I haven't seen him in person, he says he remembers it all but every time i ask him about what we going to do he doesn't reply. I'm not sure whether I like him or not because if i convince myself i like him then he doesn't like me back I'll get hurt then if he likes e back and we go out it might ruin our friendship. Help!!

sportmedek · #2 (**permalink**) 03-28-2010, 12:08 PM

well your friends right? so do what friends do! talk it over together, maybe even give it a go. but make a commitment of staying really good friends even if it do sent work out. Like maybe try both of you making a promise to each other to always be friends no matter what the outcome, furthermore, if your BBFL'S, then it should be easy for y'all to stay friends. cause that kind of bond doesn't just fall apart!

adrose2001@btinternet.com · #3 (**permalink**) 03-30-2010, 12:08 PM

First don't panic. You're the girl and your asking a man what to do. That's like giving in. If he likes you then he'd be the first to ask that. It seems that you like him because you're the one who's breaking the silence. And it seems he has no intention of destroying your friendship or maybe he's not sure of his feelings that's why he's not replying. You should be patient and wait, it might be a simple misunderstanding of feelings. If you are tough, you ran straight to him and ask it in person. But this is usually dealt with a simple face-to-face conversation.

Alana J · #4 (**permalink**) 03-31-2010, 12:08 PM

Don't go all panicky or anything of that sort. Remember, he returned that kiss too. I'd say talk to him about it, in person. Not texts. What if he likes you? And liking someone doesn't need convincing. That feeling is just there. Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game. Go for it. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be.

Good luck!