Advice On Saving My 1st Kiss For Marriage?

My first kiss was when i was twelve. That's freaking crazy. God said no sex. But there is no way anyone is going to date you if you won't kiss them. You're funny though thinking someone would date you with out kissing. Haha if you want that go back to sixth grade.

You are only 15 when you have a bf you are going to feel differently about this situation. You shouldn't care what others think and if you are serious about waiting for your 1st kiss till marriage then the boy you choose will understand. That's my advice. Good Luck

I think that's great that you want to do that.

avoiding the temptation wont be easy though... you pretty much have to avoid dating before you're old enough to marry. I dated a guy that was saving his first kiss for marriage... we never did kiss of course which was fine, I found that belief of his to be admirable. we were intimate in other ways, holding hands, cuddling. It was great. I really felt like he had a lot of respect for me. we were probably 16 at the time. but I think as he got older and fell in love he eventually kissed anyway. its hard enough just trying to resist having sex once those hormones kick in and your infatuated with each other...
so I think either avoid dating until you're 18, or just save sex for marriage instead of kissing. I mean, saving the first kiss is a great thing to strive for, I just dint think its realistic if you plan on dating long before your planning on getting married. realistic in that, I think you will change your mind if you get into a serious relationship and date them for a while. I think that there are guys out there that are also Christians and would respect your wishes not to kiss. I dint think there is anything wrong with trying to wait. any guy that isn't okay with it just isn't right for you. after all, kissing just makes it harder to resist sex, so if he's truly a Christian, he will want to avoid the temptation too. People are supposed to date to find someone to marry, not to satisfy their sexual urges. people dint need to kiss to find out if they want to marry each other. there's a lot more to marriage than that, like religious compatibility, for one.

If you're saving your first kiss for marriage, I don't think you'll ever get married then... well at least to someone you really love... or someone sane. It's hard enough finding someone to marry that is willing to wait until marriage (even if you are Christian) let alone, someone who won't even touch you! Just kiss someone! You'll see that it's no big deal.

I love the fact that I am the only man who has kissed my wife! But, more than that... I am the only man she ever said "I love you" to, I'm the only man she has ever danced with, and I am the only man she has ever "known".

1. Hold off on Romance until later on in life: I am fortunate that she waited to pursue romance until she was old enough to get married. She never had a boyfriend during the early years when relationships don't last. This determination blessed her life in more ways than she was expecting. She never cried over a boyfriend breaking up with her and saved herself easily simply by removing the temptation.

2. She used her father's wisdom: I don't know if you have a father (or if you do if he is a godly man), but my wife greatly was blessed by his protection. At college, hundreds of miles from her family, she let me know that if I wanted to pursue her, I had to first get her father's permission. This removed her stress and allowed her to have fun in groups until a worthy man came along.

3. Be hard to get: I married her when she was 19 years old and she had received 7 proposals for marriage before me! Seven proposals from seven different men! Women who are easy to "get" find themselves living for years with a man who will not propose and commit to them. Some "easy" women even have 2-4 children with their man yet still can't get the ring! Listen, MEN LOVE A CHALLENGE! Be worthy of the adventure and you will receive a man of character.

4. She remained faithful to her first love: My wife was (and is) so deep into God, that the only way I could find her was to search through him. You are setting your eyes on a worthy goal and only a few see it through to the end, but the Lord will bless you if you stay true.

good luck with that. you have to resist every temptation.
whether that's going to a party with beer and no parents, there's gonna be way more than kissing there.
if a guy really likes you, he'll understand.

A Chasity muzzle?

Wow that's really admirable...wanna go out?