Well, if she's your girl friend she probably does want you to kiss her, she is just thinking that she wants it to be special and to be at the right time. If you just escalate straight to the kiss it will probably be rejected. You will want to escalate slowly, gradually increasing the amount of contact between you and decreasing the amount of space. As the two of you are talking, start slowing down your speech and maybe giving the impression that you're not listening so closely to what she is saying anymore. Throughout this whole time you will want to be observing her body language closely. If she is following your lead, returning contact, accepting your closeness, and slowing her talking down these are all signs that she is accepting the direction in which you are taking her. She may begin to talk more however, this is not a bad sign, she could be getting nervous, and lots of people talk more when they're nervous. Simply continue to make strong eye-contact and keep kind of showing that you're not exactly listening. Then gradually move in for the kiss. Make it a good kiss too, don't move too fast and just take your time to explore her lips. Enjoy it. But make sure that you are the one who pulls away first. This makes sure that you are the one who is in control of the situation, and makes sure that you don't come off as clingy or needy. If it was good you can go back in for more.
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