Kissing AdviceThe most simple kiss can be the most meaningful touch we can give or receive, as the most complicated kiss man be the keys to a long successful relationship. If you are wanting to know how to kiss for the first time, kiss like a pro, french kiss, kiss intimately, or even kissing in passing we cover all angles imaginable. Moisten your lips and bring out your pillows, it's going to be a long night.
so, my boyfriend is a little younger than i am. i dint want any comments on that, or the fact that he's never kissed anyone before. and that's my problem. he's freaking out about how he doesn't want to mess anything up. i told him i could help him out with kissing, because the next time we see each other i guarantee that we'll make out. but how do i help him figure it out? and if he's a bad kisser, what do i do? hes really worried about it and hes sensitive so i dint want to hurt his feelings by telling him hes a bad kisser. help please?
just be understanding of him, he is rattled up because he may think you have high expectations of this and the world is going to end if he screws up, just walk him threw it,and make him feel like it's not a huge, huge deal.
My first kiss involved alcohol and a random guy at a party. Just tell him that threes no 'right' way to do it, and that no mater how bad he feels threes PLENTY of worse stories out there.
There are no books or videos to teach you how to kiss. Because you can't learn kissing that way. You learn by doing. You learn technique from the person you're kissing.
I always liked kissing (of course) but once, when I was about 15, a girl kissed me and I suddenly realized that I never had really understood kissing at all. All through my dating career (which ended, thankfully, years ago), everything I know about kissing I learned from girls I kissed. I always thought this might be because all the girls I kissed had more experience at than I did (which was probably true) but also I thought kissing was just more important to girls so they concentrate on it more.
I don't think Antone's a 'bad kisser' in the way that some of us are bad tennis players or bad musicians. It's not a matter of talent and aptitude, it's more a matter of sensitivity. When you really like someone and you really get into kissing them, you can feel how they are reacting, you get feedback from them.
So if your BF is insensitive and selfish in kissing, then you won't tell him he's a bad kisser. You'll try to teach him a few things by example. And if that doesn't work, you just won't kiss as much as he wants to.
Well first off, don't stress him out by letting him know there WILL be a make-out session Lil. That will make him run scared. He has to remember, there was a first time for all of us. Everyone is afraid of their first kiss. Maybe if you share what you went through and what worried you before your first kiss it would put his mind at ease? If he's bad, don't tell him right off....it will take him a while to get it down ;-)
Just say okay I will teach you. Then show him where his hands go and how to hold you or whatever and tell him just kiss me like you would kiss someones cheek only this is lips! Tell him it comes natural! That helps sometimes! Good Luck and also if he is bad just keep practicing!
I am freaking out on kissing you! I AM worried that if I kiss you I might be bad at it! Yes I am sensitive people! When I make out with you I hope I don't suck at it! Call you tomorrow!
You should tell him that you wont Jude him on kissing, and if he asked you how well he kissed, just tell him that you loved it. It will give him much more pride and he will make out with you more off ten. good luck
Lol. Okay ..relax..... Explain to your boyfriend that kissing comes within. There is no such thing as "teaching" someone how to kiss. Trust me. When the moment comes just make sure that you help him out by taking it sloww. Make him feel comfortable. Now no ones a pro when they start so most likely he wont be the best kisser but thats okay i promise he'll get better and better the more you two have your "moment".. Good luck!!!
When I was a teenager I used to have the same problem: I did not know how to kiss and I'd be embarrassed when that time came to do it. Anyways, now I don't have that same problem or worry about that and looking back It was actually a silly thing to worry about! Like baby when they take their first steps
we all learn some how, and nobody should worry about it, because when that time come you'll learn and get better at. Just please do not make fun, but if you already have some more experience he can always learn some from you without the embarrassment of hearing you tell him that he's a total disaster.