So how do I either flirt with him to show him or tell him that I want more than just a quick kiss?

Maura · #1 (**permalink**) 02-06-2010, 06:41 PM

I have been dating a guy for 6 weeks and we have been out on 7 dates. All the dates are out at restaurants, bars, coffee shop, movie...because we both live at home w/ our parents. I've met most of his friends. We text all the time. I feel like we have reached the point where either the relationship moves forward or it fizzles.

I'm worried because we've already had 7 dates and we've done nothing more than kiss in the parking lot three times (very PG may I add) and he held my hands once when we saw a movie together. I am worried that, our relationship could fizzle because there needs to be a more physical element to the relationship and that hasn't happened....I dint want us to turn into just friends. And I'm worried because I am shy about flirting (more so in public...and that is where we always are) and that I haven't done it enough with him in person...and I dint want to give him a friend signal.

So how do I either flirt with him or tell him that I want more than just a quick kiss?

flossiemartin1 · #2 (**permalink**) 02-09-2010, 06:41 PM

When you are kissing hold it for a bit then start to like french kiss. Just reallyLLLyw. Trust me it comes sooo naturally when you really have feelings for the person. Oh and try to like hold him when you are kissing.

foxygoldcleo · #3 (**permalink**) 02-14-2010, 06:41 PM

i would start off by flirting more and a movie theater is good cuddle up next to him. my ex wanted to make out and taxed me while he was right next to me and asked and then when i saw ahem asked it out loud and it was really sweet. So try something depending on his personality and then that should let him know. also you could be open with each other. hope it helps, if it doesn't Sr.

Joseph0323 · #4 (**permalink**) 02-15-2010, 06:41 PM

It seems like he's also shy. Or perhaps he thinks YOU don't want more than a kiss?

Since guys can't take hints, I think you should just tell him how you feel straight out. Have a conversation about it. Are you both on the same page?

What if you both want more than just a kiss, but think the other doesn't? If you don't talk about it, you WILL end up being just friends.

irish_matt1971 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-17-2010, 06:41 PM

Tell him to come over for a movie and hang out just the two you... get close, and don't hesitate to make a move, we love that stuff. .
If that doesn't work just tell him how you feel...