How do guys actually want girls to kiss?

Sali90 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-18-2009, 09:24 PM

I am a young woman (17), so this is aimed at 17-25 year old (English- if that's at all relevant) guys (the sort that shop at top man, go to clubs and pubs, go to gigs- yeah you get the idea, just typical young men here in England).
obviously, Ive kissed guys.. but only ever full on 'got off' as in 'made out' with tongue with them (whilst drunk, yeah yeah..)
anyway.. how do guys actually like girls to kiss?
as in... do you like neck kisses? soft kisses? or do you prefer a woman who just goes straight in with her tongue? do you like her to take control? or do you want to be the one who slips the tongue in?
seriously... how do guys prefer girls to kiss? any tips?

i feel stupid asking. but honestly, there's loads of advice for men out there on how to be with women, but absolutely none for women.
i, like quite a lot of girls/women just have no idea how to 'be' around guys

thanks for any tips, or advice, or just plain insight

siva · #2 (**permalink**) 12-22-2009, 09:24 PM

trust me guys like neck kisses!

shirese1975 · #3 (**permalink**) 12-23-2009, 09:24 PM

i don't know i never actually kissed a girl before. i would just want to make the girl happy however she wants me to kiss her.

blonde is so better. · #4 (**permalink**) 12-27-2009, 09:24 PM

Erma well I'm 15 year old boy, yeah I'm a live teen, party's & getting drunks my sorta thing, i mostly make out with girls at party's whilst drinking. and Erma, TB, neck kissing sucks, i dint see the point of it and personally for me 'getting off/making out is best' both of u tongues in each others mouth at once, its so fun and feels good 2, usually gives me a hardon but hey thats the fun out it

mummy · #5 (**permalink**) 12-31-2009, 09:24 PM

Im a 24 year old bloke and it depends on the situation. If it a GF then I like soft kisses leading into tongue kissing. Hmmm I like the girl to take control but I don't mind taking control either. I like my neck being kissed yes but only in private not in a club or something. If its a random I met in a club that Im pulling then I guess I prefer full on tongue as its more suitable for the situation as in a soft kiss is more intimate and better with a GF not a random. I would prefer the girl takes control in that situation.

So basically with a GF i prefer soft and passionate and in a club pulling I prefer tongue and basically not very intimate as I guess all I'm wanting is some action. But that's if I'm single only!!