I want to kiss my best male friend..any advice?

Leah D · #1 (**permalink**) 03-09-2010, 09:30 PM

me and him are in our 20's and I didn't like him at first but after spending altoTet time with him i started to feel like we should be physical in some way. He has called me beautiful multiple times..like instead of saying my name...etc etc. Sometimes i feel like were basically a couple except for the fact that we dont get physical lol...when i hang out with him its almost alwaysssss just me and him cuz we hang out like everyday.

i want to kno in this situation what would u do...like as far as not just like attacking him with a kiss lol but just to start intergrading some physical into the friendship..like touching and stuff like that...or how would i go about flirting with him without being wierd

thanks!
lol yes im sure hes straight. And we have watched movies (alottt of movies) alone together...everytime we go out im sure that everyone thinks were together and even my friends are like what is going on between u two...i just would like to flirt with him or get close to him without creeping him out or seeming to foward...ive been paying attention to his actions and the way he talks and im 95% sure he likes me or would possible want the same thing but im just not totally sure and id like to see how he would react to me trying to open the door to something more interesting lol
oh and no we both dont drink lol...and im not sure how i would go about doing the hug thing because he picks me up in his car and we usually go to his house so it would super awkward to just randomly hug him when we get to his house

| ! | roxy_gurl | ! | ™ · #2 (**permalink**) 03-13-2010, 09:30 PM

Just do it

fearspeople · #3 (**permalink**) 03-15-2010, 10:30 PM

ask him to watch a movie with you. just you two alone, on a couch meant for 1-2 people.

or give him lots of Nike equipment in hopes that the "just do it" gets to him

Zeion · #4 (**permalink**) 03-16-2010, 10:30 PM

what i would do is that i would truly tell him what i want to do and then if hes cool with it then do it physically!!
GOOD LUCK!!

musiclovingirlee · #5 (**permalink**) 03-20-2010, 10:30 PM

Are you sure he's straight? Well, you can let him know you're interested by telling him you think he's attractive/sexy. If you and he both drink, a couple of drinks can make it a lot easier to make a move if he's shy.

Tori · #6 (**permalink**) 03-21-2010, 10:30 PM

what i would do is start off with a hug (a long one) and then easily turn away from him then stare into his eyes and lips...he will get the hint! hope this helps Little

Paul R · #7 (**permalink**) 03-26-2010, 10:30 PM

think of a situation where both of you will be alone late at night. the best physical contact happens at night.

i like back Filip's idea of the movie. if it gets cold share a blanket. if it's hot wear some short shorts and a little blouse and somehow find a way to have your legs touch so when you touch your leg you touch him...

that's what i did ... it worked.

origamimark · #8 (**permalink**) 03-28-2010, 10:30 PM

KISS HIM dint wait. Kiss him gently