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what should i expect? which way should i lean in? what should i do if he doesn't want to kiss me? when should i kiss him? whats a good type of first kiss to have?
Mg i totally clueless.
can someone give me some advice? or some articles? I'm 14 BTW, :"(
Don't be nervous you will know what you do, Just go with the flow you will be doing it before you know it or He will guide you too & if your not ready dent do it yet do kiss him when it know the right time do it when your both are ready.
Well usually people lean to the left first. just go with the flow and it should come naturally! (natural human instincts) a good way to get him to kiss u is have him like put Ur necklace back on and then when he finishes look back at him and smile sweetly. then he will kiss u for sure. but if he starts to say something whisper his name ha ha hoped this helped!
Lean in the opposite way he leans that way your mouths fit together like a puzzle... sort of. When someone wont's to kiss you they will \ get close to your face look at you in your eyes then at your lips to see if you guys are on the same page a good first kiss is simple and doesn't involve bumping heads or something awkward like that
first of all CALM DOWN- this is exactly how everyone feels about their first kiss but honestly it comes naturally. just dint shove your tongue down his throat and start off with a few pecs, then let him take it to actually making out. when you guys start tongue try keeping the bottom lip because its always better in my opinion. but yeah dint worry!
hammy I'm a guy so here's some advice from me =]
if you wanna kiss him, just start talking like about how he had his first kiss, and then he is gonna ask you, so you say..mm mm well i ha vent had my first kiss yet, so if he likes you right away he will say that you should make him be your first kisser(trust me we guys like that Lil)
then just let him guide you, if he tells you he wants to be your first then he will get close to you and you just wait for him to reach and kiss you....since its your first time DONOT try kissing tongue OK!!!!....just lips ONLY, or else you will look like a dumb girl...and just follow the flow, you dint have to do steps to kiss, just follow the flow, let him guide you if he want to kiss you
Don't over think it or it will be awkward and neither of you will enjoy it.
Lean whichever way is natural for you... probably right if you're right handed or left if you're a lefty. If he doesn't want to kiss you, he'll move away or say no, which is your cue. A brief kiss on the lips is a good first one... not a peck, but no tongue!
i just want to say that this is too cute! and to awns er Ur question just go with the flow and try not to plan it also no tongue the first time to messy. good luck
I'm 14 and i recently had me first kiss...um you just have to relax and if the time feels lean in and if he leans in to...then kiss...you could part your lips just a little bit...and you should NT expect anything ...and just go with the flow
Oh dear.. Advise.. = breath to start with LOL. Everything will be okay. I'll start with my story, it couldn't get any worse then yours. I was 13, and it was behind a smelly trash can behind Walmart... where I then stepped in barf... and got my braces stuck on part of his lip...Then barfed on him >(> It was fantastic. NOT. And why did this happen you ask?! Because I was so nervous I freaked out, almost had a panic attack, and pulled back too fast, which caused it to get caught on his lip, where he then cursed, untangled us, and I stepped backwards because I was about to turn and run off out of embarrassment... and ended up stepping in puke.. >_> Where I then... puked on him because the sight of vomit does that to me. So I will give you a preventable failure. >(>
1) Don't do it behind Walmart
2) Avoid puke and trash barrels.
3) RELAX! That would have been prevented if I had just took a deep breath.
4) Have you ever seen Hitch? He will prob make the first move.. So go 10 % And let him do the rest
5) If he doesn't want to kiss you, don't force it. It wasn't meant to be.. or he is as nervous of messing up as you are so he doesn't make a move.. or he will do it later on.
6) Lean toward him.. But don't move to quick ed.. that's how you bonk heads
7) My suggestion would be tilt your head (The opposite way his does) slightly so your noses don't push against one another. Btw this doesn't mean turkey cock of the head, it means just a small 30 degree turn.
9) Part your lips slightly, they should almost be intertwine, one of your bottom lips should be in the middle between your and his lips, and then the persons who's lips and in the middle, should have their lip above the other persons top lip.. If that doesn't make sense I am sorry Lil.
9) Try to keep your lips relaxed but big, don't think pucker like small.. think pucker like sticking your lips out and wide, ( But not to the point of freaky )
10) Try to pull away slowly Lil.
11) Hands make a difference, place them where you are comfortable.
12) The type of kiss is what the moment is like. If you both are comfortable, move forward with it.. But If you are both too shy, a peck would be good.
13) Theses are not steps, don't take them like steps. They are tips.
14) Go with the flow and relax, do what feels right. And don't over think it.. Don't spend all your time thinking about all this stuff, it should come naturally.
15) Though my main tip would be... Try to focus on how big your lips get.. Don't eat his face... The widest your mouth should ever get is the size of the side of your thumb... Too wide make your spit fall in his mouth.. and its gross. But don't have thin small lips either... >.>.. Mainly balance it lol.
Good luck..
Breath..
Enjoy it..
Don't spend all your time worring about something that is meant to be nice.. not stressful.