First of all, don't forget to breathe and don't forget to swallow your own spit. You don't want to be drooling in his mouth. lightly touch tongues. You also don't just waggle your tongue in his mouth the whole time, it's more like in and out. Just relax, it's something that everyone learns naturally, like a baby learning to rollover to it's tummy. Have fun, I hope it works =)