First kiss advice!? I'm freaking out!?

Bosco · #1 (**permalink**) 08-09-2010, 01:34 PM

So I'm 16, and I've never had a boyfriend or anything before which is weird but whatever. I finally met a guy I really like and he likes me too. We've hung out a few times and we text and talk constantly. I know when I see him tomorrow he's going to try to kiss me. What do I do!? I don't understand what you're supposed to do with your lips. This is the stupidest question ever but I'm really nervous. Is lip biting hot? I don't even know. Someone help and explain to me. What do I do with my hands?? What about after? What do I say? What if it's awkward?

mmahan89 · #2 (**permalink**) 08-13-2010, 01:34 PM

Just go with it,it comes naturally

yellowstonedogs · #3 (**permalink**) 08-15-2010, 01:34 PM

Your first kiss should not be anything extreme. Just a simple, 7-10 second closed mouth kiss. Keep your lips relaxed, close your eyes, put your hands around his neck or waist. After, just smile a shy/cute little smile. Guys love that. Then he should smile too. Grab his hand and squeeze it a little. You might kiss again or just enjoy the silence together for a little bit. Good luck!

seeingblonde · #4 (**permalink**) 08-17-2010, 01:34 PM

you can be kissed by just standing and waiting with your eyes closed . . . lip biting not normally good . . .
you can ask a friend to practice kissing if you wish . . . you can keep your hands at your sides or you can place them on his back in hugging or later you can use them to touch his face while kissing . . .
you don't have to say anything. if you are at peace, it will not be awkward.