How long is too long to go without kissing/ getting physical?

its only too long if you think so...
i think 3 1/2 months is a little long, but i don't know her
just try talking to her about it

woo... it's kind of abnormal that u guys haven't kissed....concerning that you are also seniors!
If you really really like her then wait about for another week or 2 i guess...

In this society, going more than a few weeks as an official couple is too long to not have kissed. I understand if she does not want to get physical at all... and she may never want to until she gets married. (But if she's not trying to save it for marriage then she is just not a very sexual being)

Anyways, saying "I love you" within three months is a little bit TOO soon. This is a screwy relationship and I dint think you two are going to work in the long run.

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Yea I wouldn't say she was your girlfriend if you haven't kissed. Just really good friends Lil.

If you actually, truly loved her you would wait until she was ready. The fact that you're considering breaking up with her because you're not getting any "physical action" shows how little you care about her - you are focused on getting yours and nothing else. Three months really isn't long enough to love someone anyway, but besides that... is it really worth breaking the heart of someone you claim is your best friend and you claim that you love because she's not giving in to your selfish physical desires?

3 months and not kissing?? that is long.. i would understand if it was sex, or sexual acts, but kissing?? it's been long since the FIRST month. my guess is that she's just not into you that way.. kick that user to the curb you can do so much better

How long is too long is completely relative to you. If you ask for other people's opinions, your just going to get a bunch of answers about whatever dumb shallow standards they have in their relationships. And they're usually irrelevant to you.

Do you want to wait for her to be ready? Then do so.

If you don't, you don't have to feel bad. It's a preference. I personally cannot stand the naivety of "holding off your first kiss" for arbitrary sentimental reasons. But I'm an angry nihilist. My style might not work for you.

Just, either way, try not to blame her personally.

Edit: Oh, and I wouldn't feel bad about any "selfish physical desires." it's just as likely this girl is using you for selfish attention desires. Possibly.

If you are a gentleman...and I know you are...you will wait for her to be ready...just talk to her and let her know your feelings...don't rush her though...if you do, you could lose her...

Na u haven't been going out for three months, cause u haven't even kissed her, that's not a relationship, more of a friendship

If you love her, you will wait. Maybe she is testing you to see if you truly love her. Also, maybe she was raped or something, and doesn't like being touched. You never know, so either love her and wait, or forget her and dump her.