I'm 20 years old and never kissed or had a relationship with a girl...Advice please?

luvieduvie · #1 (**permalink**) 08-07-2010, 04:38 PM

I'm confused about this because I've been told that I am a good looking guy by a lot of girls and a lot of guys have ask me advice on relationships in college because they get the impression that a lot of stuff with girls since I am around girls a lot, which I have not, (but I dint tell them that Lil). I have been in the "talking stage of a relationship only twice and both said no even though I thought things were going really good. I have pursued and showed interest in girls but have been turned down every time that I have done that, which is around 7 times. I have got the "just friend" talk bunch of times with women and have a lot of women friends. Since that didn't work, I decided that if a girl likes me she will let me know whether by body language or just straight up telling me. That is how I got into the talking stage with both girls, but noticed that it takes a long time which I don't like. I also notice that my game with relationships change when I went through "the talking stage" and I think I did OK but could do better (I noticed that I am hard on myself when I went through that stage).

What should I do? Advice please from both sexes please

michaellovesmealot · #2 (**permalink**) 08-12-2010, 04:38 PM

It's just like fishing, are you using the right bait? Maybe it's your approach, mix it up a little. But definitely keep trying after all you said it you have allot of girl friends. Maybe one of your girlfriends could help you, or know of someone that has an eye on you. That would make it allot easier.

Lizzy. · #3 (**permalink**) 08-17-2010, 04:38 PM

You are young, you probably do not have a foundation to support a woman in the first place. Just live your life and eventually you will run into a woman that does like you, don't trip. Finding a good woman is not determined in stages, trust me.

LINK · #4 (**permalink**) 08-21-2010, 04:38 PM

Everyone progresses at different rates, and just because you ha vent found the right girl yet, doesn't mean you wont. It could happen tomorrow or next year, but as long as your poll's baited and in the water, you re bound to catch something.

Beth m · #5 (**permalink**) 08-25-2010, 04:38 PM

I have a Thing For you!

You say Your In College Right? This Is gonna sound like a jokey answer, but its totally not,, Go to a big raging drunk party and kiss a chick or maybe go all the way ((:

Don't tell them your a virgin though. That could get you a night of getting beer cans thrown at you. Juss saying....