is giving an advice on love matters to someone close wrong?

#1 (**permalink**) 04-26-2010, 09:00 PM

hello friends
i have a friend who had an affair with a guy ... whom i feel she still loves. she talked to her parents and they rejected the guy because he was from different caste (India,hindu). she still thinks abet him but Pol at her home are looking for match and she stopped contact with guy . i persuaded the guy to call her again
but she insulted the guy saying he irritates her and i feel guilty for hurting the guy.she has been rude enough to not even say guy that she is leaving him not because she didn't love him but her parents didn't ... she still acts like a kid and listens to her parents
Wat do u suggest her to do at this situation

Wat shall be my advice

#2 (**permalink**) 05-01-2010, 09:00 PM

It is for herself to decide.

#3 (**permalink**) 05-06-2010, 09:00 PM

As its gonna be your friend's own life I think the best way is to leave her with her own ideas... Think that what will happen after all things gone wrong ,after taking all advices from you? of course you can give advices and that should be in the way to let her think about her life

#4 (**permalink**) 05-10-2010, 09:00 PM

She has all the rights to choose Mr. Right for her. she must be knowing her parents are matured enough to advice her. so let the things happen.

#5 (**permalink**) 05-15-2010, 09:00 PM

Frankly speaking what we want is not what our friends want even though we have their interests at heart. As long as u know for sure that this is a good guy and u did your part, let her be. Any further attempt will be overdoing. Cheers.

#6 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 09:00 PM

Do not burnt your fingers in fire.