Are you in love? then plz answer my question, i need an advice from you.?
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Are you in love? then plz answer my question, i need an advice from you.?
i like a girl too much, but she's very genuine type of girl, she is very intelligent and creative, she considers me a good friend, but a general friend, i want her to consider me a special friend, then only i can go further. but, as i mentioned earlier, she is very genuine, 1 mistake and i m gone, she is from mamba and doing MBA, we r in same campus. Pl suggest me something to be close to her, i can't do a single mistake, i can't stay without her, she doesn't know this. she has a lot of friends like me, so what do i do to have her treat me specially, i really like her and i don't want to play any trick to get her, just tell me honest ways to be close to her. and she doesn't entertain typical romeo type of boys, she appreciates simple and creative ways to be her friend. i can't even tell anyone else about that, if she comes to know and doesn't like me then i m gone, so i have only one chance, i want to go slow and smooth, i can't take a chance to lose her, Pl help me.
At some point, and it may as well be sooner rather than later, you need to tell her that you are seriously interested in a long-term relationship, and see how she reacts. Good luck!
just ask her out already. if she likes you then she will go out. if not then she won't. if she is so genuine then she will be happy with your straightforwardness. women are not mind readers.
wow so much pressure
just be yourself
if she doesn't like that, then you two are not meant to be together
and if you are being yourself, you are not deceiving her and if she accepts that, you two will have a really big chance
girls appreciate guys being real... we think it's manly and brave
Firstly, you sound very insecure. Women are attracted to men who are confident, fair, not worried if the women are smarter that the man, and men who have something to offer to a relationship. Work out whet er you fit the bill first, then bring yourself to her attention in a sensual way, e.g; a compliment, a rose, a chance to meet irresistible you.
Sorry if this sounds harsh, but you don't sound in love to me, you sound like you have a big crush. Get over yourself - if she doesn't like you, then you'd be hurting her by not accepting that. I'll bet that if you can just be comfortable as yourself, and show her who you are and that you care for her, she'll probably like you.
Find out what hobbies she has, what kind of music she likes or what books she reads, then use of these to share an interest and get to know her better. A subtle approach that usually works.
OK i am in luv and i have gone through this before me and my boyfriend were dating. my only advice for you is go for it and tell her you like her, dint involve all of your feelings because you might freak her out and she might want some distance. but it is OK to just say i like you, she will appreciate that you took the chance, and that is what will make you stand out from all the other guys. just remember not to tell her you LUV her just say i dint no if you feel the same way and i dint want to make you uncomfortable but i like you. its works almost every time
i guess you still haven't understood that there are no fail-safe plans to court a girl. the best you can do is to be sincere and show her that you really care. you don't need to write special letters or send flowers. just give much more attention to her than you would to your other friends. soon she will notice it and might appreciate your efforts.
don't worry about making a mistake. everybody makes a mistake. what matters is what you do after you make a mistake. if she really likes you, even if you're the biggest bumbling fool in the world, she would still go for you.
hey guess what? you answered your own question. you exactly know what to do...be genuine, be yourself ...find the same interests in sports maybe and invite her to join you.that way, it will be very casual and you will be doing it slow and smooth and you can go from there. read your own question and the answer you're looking for is right there.
good luck
OK first, BREATHE. relax. I have been in your situation before. I doubt she's THAT selective. She isn't gonna stop being your friend over something small. She's genuine, so you need to be genuine. I don't mean gush all your feelings, I just mean don't fake it. I think you are over-analyzing things. Just try to spend time with her. You can't make someone like you. But you can try to be a great friend. Be there for her when she needs it, and just be sweet and nice. She'll probably figure out that you like her. Try and be friends with her friends. That's the fastest way to win over a girl. Also they can clue you in if she starts to like you. And dude. She's not going to stop being your friend unless you like, push her off a cliff! chill. Relax. Just enjoy being with her.
if i were you i would be honest talk to her and tell her you like her. Ask her to somewhere special like a romantic restaurant or something like that. You don't want to overdo it so just try and maybe place your hands on the table and see if she does the same then you will know. just make sure you take it slowly and see what happens next. If she doesn't like typical romeos as you say take her somewhere that suits her style. if she likes to dance go dancing. find out what she likes before you try taking her somewhere. another good starter is maybe ice skating or just rollerblading especially if she sucks at it then you can help her if your okay at it. and bump into her "accidentally" so you can hold onto her.
If she is with you & she is not using you ,You will not find such a good friend in life.
You can ask her as if she loves anyone.
If she will not love you ahem will tell someone name,otherwise she will demand you to guess.
this can be indirect way to know.
you can propose her directly for marriage , that is noway wrong,neither the relation will damage
This goinag to be a verifying, twice, thrice, as much as u can before u do that! U need to be extra smooth. Be nice, be a good listener; A GIRL LOVE THAT!! Be "the perfect one"! Sincere, faithful, etc. Give her gifts on special occasion. When she's in a hard time, be there for her. That would hit her and she might be interested. Invite her to places also. Be extra sweet! Best of luck! I hope u succeeds!
as u r saying,she is very intelligent and so on.
she have alto friends like u.just a little think why she has a lot of friends like u.why u don't have friends like her.because she is better than u.
i few lines for u.
Sudra HUD b HUD niche ho Cayuga,
Pele HUD KO us SE uncha kijiye.
may be if u was on the place of her.u never think about that,as u r felling now about her.
else best of luck.
Are you in love? then plz answer my question, i need an advice from you.?
